The Good Weather

in #family2 years ago

Its a beautiful rainy day today. Morning when I woke up I was in a little cranky mood but gradually got better. With the weather my mood also changed. It's also our New Year today, so many morning rituals had to be done. On such days we normally put flower garland at the entrance and do Rangoli. I am happy because today our full family will be together celebrating this New Year day. Hubby will come to India by afternoon flight and in the evening one of our friends have invited us for dinner to their residence.

Some decorations at my door step. Fish is considered to be an auspicious symbol in our culture. It represents Abundance and hence this rangoli of Fish design.
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I believe that these are the times when family gets the opportunity to bond and spend time with each other, else life is so busy these days and everyone is in their own routines. In such times we pause and do things a little differently.

Last night I was talking to my Son, he is having relationship issues with his girl and both of them have fallen apart. The girl that he was with, me and hubby had also developed a close bonding with her. I talk to her as well. Both of them are feeling the pain of the break up but I guess their egos are not willing to settle down. I am worried for both of them that in ego they should not sacrifice their love. They have been together since 7 years and they have kind of grown up with each other. When a relationship gets old and stagnant problems do occur, but I tell them that the most important is the Love between them. If that fades out then yes there is no point in dragging a relationship.

I have been thinking about them a lot lately. Though I know my son will move forward fast, majority of the man are like that, but the girl is very emotional and sensitive I am worried for her more. It should not happen that one of them moves on and the other is stuck up, because that's painful.

My deepest desire right now is that both of them forget their differences and start their relationship fresh keeping all the old grudges behind and only focusing on making things better between them with new energies. Though, I have a feeling that it will not happen, because my son already made me meet another girl which he says they both want to know each other well and take it from there. So kind of he has already moved forward. I am feeling a little angry also with him, but its his life, I do not have control or hold over it. I have to accept and move ahead cordially with whatever he decided for his life.

Anyways today is a good day and I am looking forward to spending a good evening with my dear ones.

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Hey @nainaztengra Happy new year to you

The weather here is quite amazing and it's raining since morning too but you Got an amazing day there

Spending family time, decorations and these rituals are always memorable moments of our life

Wish you a Good day ahead - Have fun!

Thank you for your good wishes. True, some special moments in the good day makes it all the more beautiful

Welcome siso. Indeed!! Wish you more special moment's!