Mum life is difficult wonderful and a blessing

in The LIFESTYLE LOUNGE3 years ago
Authored by @Britt

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THE 10 THINGS EVERY MOM (POSSIBLY) WILL LOOSE
SOME I DID LOOSE I AM HONEST

This article may be a shock and if you are reading this as a man, it could be an eye opener and maybe a blog that will help you understand your wife better. As a girl, most of them dream of becoming a mother from an early age. In many cases, this works out somewhere between 25 and 35 years old, sometimes a little younger. A dream come true. You have children and honestly you may lose a lot afterwards. Yes, it really is! Of course you get a lot in return (ahem) but you also lose a lot. Nowadays, when I talk to my friends during a zoom meeting with wine, we laugh alot and have new online fun. In this covid time, you have to keep seeing the fun in life with quarantine. And what is better than to analyze with your girlfriends what a mother's life means, it is fun but can also put things into perspective. In our case the life of a group of mothers' friends, some full time others part time.

  • Matching underwear You know where are the panties that match that bra. Or vice versa. Is one in the wash, or the other. Or your child walks around with the bottom part on his head, because he is a superhero. Pantiesman or something. Ok matching sets are gone before you know it.
  • Time for yourself When I only had one child, I could still find a moment or 15 minutes here and there. But now… Now that I am a mother of four, everything is gone. Lost or lost somewhere to be found, but i have no time to search. No idea where but blogging is something they know has to be done, i said thats a job mum needs to do every day, or the will not get food hahahahahh yes do judge me please.
  • Space on the memory stick of phone / tablet / camera These things are completely jammed with every mother with children's photos that you do not dare to delete because you are afraid that you will ever regret it. And with me also full of photos for possible blogs.
  • Dinner Recipes That Are Low on Carbs I want a lot of them stored in my notes that I want to turn into foodie blogs. The fact your phone is slow because of that is just collateral damage.
  • The 5 on the scales. From 57 kilos. I once weighed that much when I was young and childless. Not seen for a long time, that 5.
  • Firm breasts, (not my contribution, honest, its my friends one or should I say two) ever had them. Really good ones, too. She still regrets never taking a picture of it. How beautiful they were. Yes were, past tense. The same applies here: lost since she was a mother. I am not dissatisfied. I would lose 5 or 10 kilograms, preferably NOT on the breasts.
  • Empathy for non-mothers I can't do it anymore. Empathize with women who don't have children. No, I don't think you have the right to complain. Yes, I think you are putting yourself down. Sorry. It is just the truth. If you knew what it's like to combine work and children, you wouldn't complain about nothing.
  • Hiven that is something my friends don't understand, a difficult subject, they are still in the FB phase and writing whole stories is not something they aspire to do. Still to come i guess i was 1 year late to steemit aswell so better l;ate to a party than never. Yes crypto is something they have yet to get excited about.
  • The power to watch a pathetic TV show without crying, no I can't do it anymore. Certainly not when something comes up with pathetic children. I also allow myself to be sold to any good cause. You take a picture of a sad baby and I subcribe or become am a member. What a softie I have become. Bah! Or maybe hubby likes that about me hahahah i hope , note to self : ask him tonight.
  • A little bit of your identity Which mother does not occasionally ask herself: who am I actually? Besides your role as a mother, then. I struggle with that sometimes and I believe that I am not alone. Of course this is a concise version of what I discussed with my dear friends, and it is also a bit with a hint of sarcasm because I have a good fantastic life but without this slightly sarcastic twist here and there is no fun, either on line or in real time.

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LAS 10 COSAS QUE TODA MAMÁ (POSIBLEMENTE) PERDERÁ
ALGUNOS HE PERDIDO SOY HONESTO

Este artículo puede ser impactante y, si está leyendo esto como hombre, podría ser una revelación y tal vez un blog que lo ayude a comprender mejor a su esposa. De niña, la mayoría sueña con ser madre desde temprana edad. En muchos casos, esto funciona entre los 25 y los 35 años, a veces un poco más joven. Un sueño hecho realidad. Tienes hijos y, sinceramente, puedes perder mucho después. ¡Sí, realmente lo es! Por supuesto, obtienes mucho a cambio (ejem) pero también pierdes mucho. Hoy en día, cuando hablo con mis amigos durante una reunión de zoom con vino, nos reímos mucho y nos divertimos en línea. En este momento de covid, tienes que seguir viendo la diversión de la vida con la cuarentena. Y qué mejor que analizar con tus amigas lo que significa la vida de una madre, es divertido pero también puede poner las cosas en perspectiva. En nuestro caso la vida de un grupo de amigas de madres, unas a tiempo completo otras a tiempo parcial.

Ropa interior a juego Ya sabes dónde están las bragas que combinan con ese sujetador. O viceversa. Está uno en el lavado o el otro. O tu hijo camina con la parte inferior en la cabeza, porque es un superhéroe. Pantiesman o algo así. Ok, los conjuntos coincidentes desaparecen antes de que te des cuenta.
Tiempo para ti Cuando solo tenía un hijo, todavía podía encontrar un momento o 15 minutos aquí y allá. Pero ahora ... Ahora que soy madre de cuatro hijos, todo se ha ido. Perdido o perdido en algún lugar para ser encontrado, pero no tengo tiempo para buscar. No tengo idea de dónde, pero los blogs es algo que saben que se debe hacer, dije que es un trabajo que mamá debe hacer todos los días, o no obtendrán comida, jajajaja, sí, juzgame, por favor.
Espacio en la tarjeta de memoria del teléfono / tableta / cámara Estas cosas están completamente atascadas con todas las madres con fotos de niños que no te atreves a borrar porque temes arrepentirte alguna vez. Y conmigo también lleno de fotos para posibles blogs.
Recetas para cenas bajas en carbohidratos Quiero muchas de ellas almacenadas en mis notas que quiero convertir en blogs gastronómicos. El hecho de que su teléfono sea lento debido a eso es solo un daño colateral.
El 5 en la balanza. Desde 57 kilos. Una vez pesé tanto cuando era joven y no tenía hijos. No visto desde hace mucho tiempo, eso 5.
Pechos firmes, (no es mi contribución, honesto, es uno de mis amigos o debería decir dos) alguna vez los tuve. Muy buenos también. Todavía se arrepiente de no haberle tomado nunca una foto. Qué hermosos eran. Sí, pasado. Lo mismo se aplica aquí: perdida desde que era madre. No estoy insatisfecho. Perdería 5 o 10 kilogramos, preferiblemente NO en los senos.
Empatía por las no madres. Ya no puedo. Empatiza con las mujeres que no tienen hijos. No, no creo que tengas derecho a quejarte. Sí, creo que te estás menospreciando. Lo siento. Es solo la verdad. Si supieras lo que es combinar trabajo e hijos, no te quejarías de nada.
Dado que eso es algo que mis amigos no entienden, un tema difícil, todavía están en la fase de FB y escribir historias completas no es algo a lo que aspiran hacer. Aún por venir, supongo que llegué 1 año tarde para enviarme también, así que mejor comí en una fiesta que nunca. Sí, las criptomonedas son algo por lo que aún no se han entusiasmado.
El poder de ver un programa de televisión patético sin llorar, no, no puedo hacerlo más. Ciertamente no cuando surge algo con niños patéticos. También me dejo vender por cualquier buena causa. Le sacas una foto a un bebé triste y yo me suscribo o me convierto en miembro. Qué blanda me he convertido. ¡Bah! O tal vez a mi esposo le gusta eso de mí jajaja, espero, nota para mí: pregúntale esta noche.
Un poco de tu identidad ¿Qué madre no se pregunta de vez en cuando: quién soy yo en realidad? Además de tu papel de madre, entonces. A veces lucho con eso y creo que no estoy solo. Por supuesto, esta es una versión concisa de lo que hablé con mis queridos amigos, y también es un poco con un toque de sarcasmo porque tengo una vida fantástica pero sin este giro un poco sarcástico aquí y no hay diversión, tampoco en línea. o en tiempo real.

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Date : 12 april 2021

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I quite bit understand how is difficult to be a mother, but anyway become a mother is one of a great adventure in a lifetime. Once you become a mother, forever you are as mother.

Respect for all Mum in the word. 🙏🏻

Juggling chores, work and children is something one learns to cope with.

No use crying later, choice was made, actually those who complain later are annoying, no one forced them, there are many birth control pills etc., if they had decided they did not want families.

Another annoyance is woman using their children to beg when times get hard, placing snotty nosed children in your face to attempt make you feel guilt. Sorry this no longer works, once again choice was made by the individual, although I do feel extremely sad for all these children. Support children feeding funds only.

Losing shapely body does not happen to all but many do, another fact one faces and learns to live with, it is called maturity.

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