I started a comment on a blog, did a draft and another draft, than I deleted to do another comment and I erased it 4 times now. Its a complex thing so I decided to press publish, in the comment section, but than thought maybe a blog also about this topic isn’t such a bad idea either. I am just gonna write what comes to my mind first. Just to be clear, I have seen a lot here on the platform, people here only for the money , bigmouths, assholes , bitches and witches and all with a strenght that all depended on the length of ..... the depth of .... or, the amount in their wallets. Some fair and truthfull other just lying. Hell I experienced it a few times and sometimes it was funny, sometimes hurtful and sometimes a real dissapointment. I have HD some big ones here, I dealt with them, put the dissapointment far away and moved on. But when I think of them it still can make me sad, I won’t deny.
Its almost like real life, only free not in quarantine. Maybe this is a qua-RANT-ine. Sometimes that is great to get things of your chests.
There are some rotten human beings out there, both online and in real life. People who are greedy, unfair and untruthful. People who act in their own best interests, the fairly new, the early birds and the wak along siders, even when its immoral, and blatantly wrong.
Some say that is what money does to you, I don’t know. I was brought up,with the saying ; treat other like you want to be treated , and what goes around comes around. I do know that when your spect that people think and act alike you act in live, that is your biggest mistake. Because there are people who really just don’t care about anyone else, they just care about themselves, or people that are so narcissistic they don’t even see the undue damage that they cause.
Its probably one of the most disheartening things I’ve grown to witness and learn about humanity as a whole in life in general, and age is inappropriate in this matter. I deal with it. Not fair, not fun just the reality.
It makes me both furious and frustrated but mostly sad. Just sad that we can’t just all get along, have our differences and respect that we all can, and live, write and blog happily ever after. If only everyone was born with a bit more integrity and good heart, if only than our little globe would be such a nicer place and so would our platform. Yes, our platfrom, we all contribute big or small, one more comfortable than the other, and some with a higher stake than others, yet its still OUR platfrom.
We might not like everyone here, we might not like the brutal honesty or the girl with the chain of ideas
( for all of you reading me, thinking who might that be?.... thats me guys, I am the girl with a chain of ideas ) we might not like a struggling account with antag list to,wales being downvoted, we might not like little discord groups talking bad about others. We might be opposed to actions being made or the making of waves but we all want to sleep well at night, we all want to be loved and we all want to see that big upvote. The platform is full of love , and our intentions are peacefully clear, hive is a life, that alone is a powerful sentence but for most of us that is true. We are here for the long run, so why not reconcile. Reconsider burrying the hatchets, not to go back to the good old days but to move on to new days, without clouds still hanging above former friendships, long time friendships and short term alliances.
Move on, be grateful for the opensourced possibility to blog, rant and openly ask answers. Be polite and answer or just wave a white flag. Whatever......
If we all, and I know the tags were removed but, you all know who you are, I don’t even know all of you,
but you do, if we all moved on. I know we will all be ok no matter what comes our way. To anyone being treated in a way that was hurtful, dishonest, treated unfairly, downvoted, banned or rubbed the wrong way, stay strong and remind yourself how much better it is to have a soul at peace, to stand fierce to all thats ahead. To be reminded to be a good human being and a true hiver in flesh and blood.
Rise above it all and find inner calm knowing that you will be ok as a person, friend and as a hiver in the end. All times the voice inside was, is and will be the most important, I read the comments of the blog and I love the honesty, but what does that bring you? You moved on, been greeving the biggest loss and still experiencing things that I don’t wish on you or anyone for that matter. But than life happens and we all have our fair share of things that need to be taken care of, but that’s life, your life. Rise dear, and see them as a passed station. Some people just don’t care or have it in them. We try to find people we like, who think alike, or do things like you would have done them, but untill a clone is possible, we all have a different way of achieving the same.
Great minds think alike thats why we all moved here almost 12 months ago. Its been a journey and we will be travelling alongside eachother for many more years to come I hope. Some bloggers will leave and many new will come aboard. Let the early adapters that we all are, read what we like and reward what we love, without looking at the person that wrote the words, and thinking about past grudges. Curate from the hart.
And blog into the future!
This is just a quaRANTine that is not personal written about someone, not pointing a finger to, nor is it about anyone special. I just love this place we all build here daily, a person who fights for it to flourish in the coming days, months and years. The disagreements online between some people here, can possible be put in the past, when someone like me as an outsider noticed it online and read most of what was available thought that maybe this could be a thing of the past , with co existence in the future.
The covid era is difficult enough, so just look past all that’s happened and look at what people can be for the future. A future together for us all. Please leave me a comment even if you don’t have a clue, or when you do have a clue or two and want to let me know your vision or insight. In advance I tell you that it will be appreciated.
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At the end of a post, after it is read, or even voted because of who wrote it, it is our vote, people need understand that. It is their vote, they are allowed to use it as they see fit. Yes it would be nice to support a random person, a random piece of content, it would be nice, but it should never be something that is mandatory.
People are, like you said, going to be people. We all have different ideas, we are all unique, and in truth we all really don't need to get along. It would be nice if everyone could respect everyone else, but we know that is never going to happen.
Well the respect part that’s is what I love to see some more. Some people get attacked in a brutal way. Think about the fact that behind every rant , because that’s what I am talking about there must be frustration. Read and comment the voice you want to be without burning someone to the ground. And I done that burning aswell a few times to be honest because I thought it wasn’t fair but moved on after that. We can all do only so much and friendship come and go and I never thought that friendships online could happen. They did and I see that other members experienced the same , got hurt along the way and even whenots not fair that it happened just move on like we would do in normal life. Again this is not my story but it’s something I would like to see be changed. Not the votes not the comments but the riots , hive needs to grow and we need every help possible.
I appreciate the comment and the view on things from your side
I can relate to your frustration of the world and on hive ecosystem. I spend almost 8 hours a day gaming, blogging and curating and averaging $2 in upvotes a day while some others can post one paragraph a day and earn 10 times more. Oh well life is just unfair.
Still this goes on in the real world too. Inequality between the haves and the have nots. Stock markets at all time highs while many don’t even have a full time job. Frustrating ensues everything I watch the markets go to all time highs but that’s how the world works as of now. Do what I can to survive. Save some money put it in the markets and keep saving and buying ever so little in hopes one day it becomes much more than what I put in.
The thing of why the world mostly stinks is people who have the power are treating the ones who don’t have power or wealth unfairly. The way I see it you have a good heart and appear to be a decent person. Going out and fight your way through success in earning more and gaining recognition. That way you earn the power that can allow you to treat people the way you think they should be treated. I try doing that everyday. Like the old saying bad people exist is because good people do nothing. I do not want to be pushed over or be taken advantage of for the rest of my life. I hope to amass enough hive to one day do better I this ecosystem and in real life have a passive income. I got a long road ahead lol. Thanks.
I can relate to your frustration of the world and on hive ecosystem. I spend almost 8 hours a day gaming, blogging and curating and averaging $2 in upvotes a day while some others can post one paragraph a day and earn 10 times more. Oh well life is just unfair.
WELL AGAIN THE PRICE IS NOT THE MOST IMPORTANT FOR ME BUT THE FACT THAT WE ALL MAKE EFFORTS AND EARN MORE THAN ON “NORMAL” SOCIALS IS A PLUS. I MEAN THAT PEOPLE ALWAYS LOOK AT OTHERS AND RELY ON THE FACT OTHERS GET VOTES AND MAKE MORE MONEY THAN THEY DO, BUT MAYBE OTHERES DO OTHER THINGS TO GET TO THAT STAGE, BUT IS THAT A RERASON TO BE ANGRY OR FIGHT FUTES OIUT IN-LINE. WHERE IS THE OERSONAL TOUCH.
THAN AGAIN ITS AN OPENSCIURCE AND DECENTRALISED PLATFORM ALL IS ALLOWED. JUST IN THESE TIMES I WOULD LOVE SOME SWEET FUTES AND DISAGREEMENTS SEE GONE
The thing of why the world mostly stinks is people who have the power are treating the ones who don’t have power or wealth unfairly. The way I see it you have a good heart and appear to be a decent person. Going out and fight your way through success in earning more and gaining recognition. That way you earn the power that can allow you to treat people the way you think they should be treated. I try doing that everyday. Like the old saying bad people exist is because good people do nothing. I do not want to be pushed over or be taken advantage of for the rest of my life. I hope to amass enough hive to one day do better I this ecosystem and in real life have a passive income. I got a long road ahead lol. Thanks
SURE NOBODY WANTS TO NBE PUSHED WE ALL HAVE OUTR OWN RIDE OR JOURNETY HERE. ITS DIFFICULT AS WE ALL KNOW BUT WE CHOOSE TO BE HERE AND MAKE THE BEST OF IT.
I want to thank you for this nice well thought comment i appreciate it very much.
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Totally identified with you.
Yes we need to change some things buit i dont think we all agree here, its almost the same as in REAL life hhahahaha, but the intention is there if I have a say in it .
Thank you @bhattg
you know .. you're totally right
This happened to me many times .. before when we were in steemit .. there are many people use their power against me, i used to post about my country (Palestine), but there are some people didn't realize that (we are different but we are not enemy) they used to treat me as I'm their enemy, but in fact i never met them and they didn't know me but just when they saw me post something they downvote me , and that's why i left steemit for more than one year .. but now i back again .. i know i don't have that much support but i will never stop post what i think and what i want .. and i know what i post never hurt anyone
Hi Nour,m i remember we talked about this before and the situation in your country. The fact people fought online without seeing the other side of the coin is so narrowminded but its a reflection of the real world in letters written on the platfrom here so it may not be that big of a surprise. But if we all try to be talking without judging some of the fights and the downvotes and the egos here would be a start. The start of a nicer platform. I know some blogs by bloggers i dont like but when the blog is great i hit the vote vbutton for sure. And if someone would consider me a friend and one day is gone i will for sure ask why, online in dm or in discord. I would want an answerr, after that i can move on, with or without giving votes but some arguments here i dont like ,
But like I said that must be the size or surtain things.
I love having you in the terminal and i will go to your blogs and vote for them just to show i care and like you being here
Wow, this is quite a rant! I can't imagine all you've experienced after spending much time on this platform compared to I who joined a few days back but I understand. It's all about respecting each other and our differences. Appreciating what everyone has to offer.
Hi dear Emmy sometimes thing seem unfair and are, or can be unfair and than you can stand by friends and make a blog about it we all have a voice but be nice and be strong. Its just as in the real world
So beautifully written. One of your most precious attributes hon is your complete transparency and honesty. Don't ever change! Thank you so much for always being there for me. I value your friendship greatly.
Yet again the ones that need to read this arent so some situations here will never change , and we can if we all do some moves and be nice even if we waant to be strong in words, oh well i have one guide thats my voice we will see what happens from now
Quite right hon. You can take a horse to water but you cannot make it drink 😉
About those horses, did any of them came to drink
Buenos días! Estoy de acuerdo con usted. Uno le dedica un tiempo valioso a escribir contenidos de calidad. Se esmera y zas..... ve que otros publican cosas que no les lleva tanto tiempo escribirlas y tienen una cantidad inmensa de votos. Lamentablemente es muy frustante ver eso a cada rato en diferentes comunidades. Esperemos seguir aportando contenido de calidad para que lo valoren y lo apliquen en sus vida.
Feliz día!!
Good Morning! I agree with you. You spend valuable time writing quality content. He tries hard and wham ..... he sees that others publish things that do not take them so long to write and have an immense amount of votes. Unfortunately it is very frustrating to see that all the time in different communities. We hope to continue providing quality content so that they value and apply it in their lives.
Happy day!!
Eso es muy bueno, gracias, pero para mí no se trata tanto de la cantidad que gano en un blog, sí, también quiero ganar 10 dólares, pero odio que las peleas entre comunidades y arruinen viejas amistades, todas las personas necesitan ser algo qué mejor tanto en línea como en la vida real que hará que nuestra tierra sea mucho más agradable.
That is so nice thank you but for me its not so much about the amount i am making on a blog , yes i want to make 10 dollar aswell, but i hate that fights dicvide communities and ruin old friendships, all people need to be some what nicer both online as in real life that will make our earth so much nicer.
And what is your take on my blog or didnt you read it?
A beautifully written reality. Leaving a nice comment does not cost much and is of high value for the person who takes time to prepare their publication. And one way to show your appreciation is by voting for him. @brittandjosie
Thank you so much friend
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Thank you @mattsanthonyit what are your takes on the platforms fights ?