Together Forever - Trees and Friends

in GEMS3 years ago

It's still a little early, so a little chilly and not as bright, but, I promise to dial up some sunshine here.

Today I took a breather. Just me and the trees, with a few flowers that followed along. I used to think I could do it all, but, it has taken me a while to figure out that can't do it all at once. I need some time, choosing my moments carefully. I breathe deep and take it all in, leaving no breath behind.

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Many Springs back, I said good-bye to this beautiful friend. Anyone that was caught in the wake of her life loved her. It was how she lived and loved- that was the golden thread that stitched together the ordinary seams of her life. Funerals are as much collective meditations as tearful goodbyes to one person. We use the departed life as a lens to assess our own. So, I ask you, how would you like to be remembered?

Seriously...

It is likely that she never realized the impact she had on people. She lightened my heart. And yet, all she was doing was being herself. Just by being her; her love - deep and deliberate. How is it some people just have that effect on people?

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As I was kneeling at her grave, I could feel the cadence, the rhythm of the horse’s hooves contrasting with the solemnity of the journey. I couldn't turn around, but the scene was burnt in my memory.

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Of course, today was not so pretty, but, this is from around the time she was laid to rest. It seems so long ago, and in time, I guess it really is. But, every once in a while, I cut through a path that brings me right in front of her, and I take a moment to give thanks to God for putting her in my life for a short time.

I write this not out of sadness, but, sharing the peaceful surroundings that quiet my heart. I look back at these pictures, watching the trees hug her goodnight

There is a soft whisper in the breeze... and I say my goodbye.

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There are daffodils standing in the fields, coloring the landscape in a bright hue of spring. How can one refute the fact that this very moment in your life becomes part of your very own story? No right. No wrong. It is up to you how you want to write it.

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All I have are my words, armed in my mind, written in pen, stand by stand. Oh, yes. Still by hand. It has a different feel. Altered not by keys, backspace, and delete, I write, erase, tear it to pieces and start all over again. And again.

It’s my way. I walk out to the deep end of the page and dive right in.

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Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer’s lease hath all too short a date:
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dimmed,
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance, or nature’s changing course untrimmed:
But thy eternal summer shall not fade,
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow’st,
Nor shall death brag thou wander’st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow’st,
So long as men can breathe, or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.

Shakespeare


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A beautiful tribute to your heavenly friend, Denise.🕊

I've always believed funerals should be celebrations to honor the departed person's life.

Let the tears flow.
Tears are one's heart releasing love in liquid form.

Smile when you think of her. Smile often. She will see it.💓

Till you meet again...

Thank you, Nina. She has been gone a while and I was musing over her and her life and what a beautiful person she was. It was about this time quite a few years ago that she left this world, quite unexpectedly and young. But, I have made my peace with God about taking someone in their budding of life, and, I was in the area and wanted to leave a few flowers.

Thank you, always for your sweet words and your thoughtful comments.

The peaceful surroundings that quiet your heart... and your soul!
Wonderful words for a friend who you loved, @dswigle.

Thank you, Beauty. She deserved every one of them. xo

Sometimes I find myself thinking of how a person affected me so much, and now that they are gone, and having not realized this until later ... I would send prayers of thanksgiving.

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This place looks peaceful and beautiful. Nice photography

WOW, that is very beautiful. I don't understand many words but the sound of it make me want to cry. 😥