Advice can be a double-edged sword and should be approached with caution by those giving it and those receiving it.
Totally agree, and like you the unsolicited advise wrecks my head. It's a bit like those who are offended on behalf of someone else, when that someone else is not even offended!
Good on you for being the sounding board for "April" it sounds like you really helped her out by just listening. That is a talent many are not in possession of and many people are just waiting for their opportunity to talk again..
The food looks mighty tasty too 🤤
Oh yeah, those offended for someone else who isn't offended people are nutbags. I ran into one a couple weeks ago...I should have punched him in the face. Lol.
I'm please to say April resigned from her current role and is keen to see out her one month and get started on the next. She sounds very energised and enthusiastic about it. I'm glad I was able to help out in some small way.