Advice is one of those things people ask for, but rarely want. What they usually need is an excellent sounding board. I like how you turn it back on them, allowing them to decide for themselves. Ultimately, I think that is the only decision a person will be happy with. Taking ownership, as you put it - I think it empowers you.
I am not offended by unsolicited advice, but, people should not be offended if I don't take it.
That looks like a delicious breakfast and I am a fan of avocados!
Hi. Galen!
I understand that some people just think they're helping with advice. I guess it's in the delivery of it. I know people that hand it down like Moses delivering the Ten Commandments, or people who don't listen first then proceed to spew the advice out. I think people do it to feel important, seem intelligent or just because they feel like their opinion is the only one that counts.
I believe it's always best to help lead people towards their own outcomes and to allow them to retain the responsibility for decisions and ramifications.