Today was my second last with my current employer. I accepted another role elsewhere and, after a week or so off to hit the reset button in various enjoyable ways, I'll begin a new chapter in my professional career. I'll not go as far as saying I'm excited, it's work after all, however I'm looking forward to the new challenge and benefits it will bring.
When I resigned, the team were dismayed; one cried, although they took it reasonably well overall.
I guess they understand that people move on for their own reasons and there's not much they can do to hold them. The Director spent an hour in the boardroom with me and we chatted about various things including his offer of more money and whilst it was generous, it was a long way below the increased remuneration I'm moving to. Besides, I've made a commitment to my new employer, signed a contract, and I'm a man of my word.
I've spent the last few days wrapping up my current position. Fortunately I'm a structured and systematised operator so it's been a straight forward process. My notes on accounts and files are all me-oriented meaning I have things set up in a way that works for me, which may not work for others, so I've been making things a little more generic so whomever steps into my role will be able to make sense of it and pick up where I left off. I've created extensive notes and have moved things along on accounts that I could do so with the view to leaving less work for the next person; the role is complex enough without being left a shambles. They have no one lined up as yet, and at risk of coming across as egotistical, I believe they will have difficulty finding someone as well-rounded as I am. The job will get done though, no one is irreplaceable.
I'm pleased to say the office folk and Director feel I'm leaving on good terms; it was important for me to ensure it. Burning bridges is counter-productive and I need the ability to look at myself in the mirror, (not a pretty sight), and be content that I was the best version of myself, operated with professional integrity and left a good impression, the one I'd worked so hard to build over the time I've worked here.
The chaps in the factory have been great also, most have handed me notes with their phone numbers and comments like, stay in touch bro and it's a bummer to see you go. That's nice right? I guess taking the time each day to chat with them personally, a few minutes talking about their weekend, what they're working on at home, or their family has built relationships a little stronger than the everyday-workplace relationship and they don't see me as a manager in the office who never lowers himself to enter the factory.
The girls in the office have been really nice as well; as I said one started crying. Another came up to me and told me how much she'd miss me, something I really appreciated as I felt her words were heartfelt and the emotion genuine.
None of this will impact my decision to leave of course, however I will think well of them rather than poorly as is so often the case when an employee exits a company.
Yesterday I took some time to find gifts for the office girls and each will receive a gift bag with a tea or coffee mug, imported biscuits, selection of tea or coffee, bed socks, hand cream, some chocolates and a thank you card. I'll leave them on their desks tomorrow morning and back it up with a few genuine words of thanks and appreciation.
For the chaps in the factory, I have a few trays of muffins ordered which I'll place with a thank you card in the kitchen/meals area prior to their morning break so they can enjoy one with their coffee or tea as a thankyou from me for being good fellows.
These things aren't much, just small tokens of appreciation and gratitude, however they will allow me to move on come the end of the day tomorrow knowing I was the best version of myself, showed gratitude and appreciation to those who deserved it and that when I walk out of the front door, with my head held high, I have earned that right.
I'm looking forward to a little time off - I value moments of solitude - and plan to do some hiking, shooting, coffee-with-friending and various other things from which I derive enjoyment. I've also asked for a pile of documentation from my new employer so will peruse that to begin the process of slotting into the company as quickly as possible. Having said that, I'll not spend a huge amount of time doing that; the time will mostly be about myself and the pursuit of enjoyment, happiness and contentment. I deserve it.
Design and create your ideal life, don't live it by default - Tomorrow isn't promised so be humble and kind
Any images in this post are my own
You are an impressive man sir. You even gave the office girls parting gifts hahahaha. That's so kind and thoughtful.
It crossed my mind since they know in your current office that you are leaving and why they didn't try to "tempt" you to stay with increased offer and even another role. I know you won't change your mind and I just know it would feel good if they do that. I'm glad they did...it would make you feel more appreciated...it's just a good feeling.
It's a new chapter in the book and I know it would be exciting for you. A new chapter or page is not the end of the book...
Me leaving doesn't mean I have to compromise my integrity as a gentleman, generous or grateful man. I was grateful and showed it. The factory workers are eating donuts I brought for them as I type this and are probably feeling that the old G-dog is a pretty decent chap, thoughts that reaffirm what they already feel I'd say, based on how I treated them and dealt with them in my time here.
The hour I spent in the boardroom with the Director was designed to tempt me to stay, as stated in the post. I'm not sure it made me feel better though, I guess I expected it. Also, I derive my feeling of value and worth internally and from how I treat those around me whom I value. Work is just work. I know what you're getting at though, it's just that I'm not an egotistical man so rarely feel the need for accolades or ego boosts.
Was that why you used that avatar?? 😏😏.
Congratulations on your new employment, it's great to see that you gave your all with due diligence and you actually made a big impact in everyone's lives. Who wouldn't miss such an experienced worker like you.
Keep going @galenkp, you're making your time worthwhile. I can't imagine the looks on the girls faces when they get your gifts, I'm sure you'll get some pretty good calls after tomorrow, hehe.
I'm the 100th person to vote on this post, Its a sign don't you think...if you count 100 from the back you'll arrive at 001..I'm quite excited! ❤️❤️
Yes. I'm hideously ugly so have to hide my face so people don't get scared and run away or pelt me with stones, then run me out of the village with pitchforks.
It's been a good stay here at this role, it helped me prepare for the next which will return greater rewards for me and (I hope) longevity. I won't know what they say about me when I'm gone, and it doesn't matter, but I like to feel content that I was the best version of myself. Hence my actions whilst I was here and on my last day tomorrow.
Lol, the 100th voter? That calls for a celebration...I'll drop a bigger vote on this comment for you ok.
Hideously Ugly people don't have girls crying over them and guys giving them notes to stay in touch. I must say it's quite the opposite!.
The mind has a way of bringing our hopes into reality. I'm pretty sure you'll do great. You're right, you've done your part and your heart is at rest, there's no going back..only forward..be sure to do whatever your mind tells you.
My!!... you're the first person to gift me on my birthday, feels really good to see what a bigger vote from you feels like...I really appreciate it...❤️
Your birthday? Well, my vote was for you being the 100th voter on this post...But I'll now allot 50% of it to that and the other 50% to your birthday.
Happy birthday.
Wow, thanks a lot @galenkp ...you've made my day ❤️❤️❤️
That's awesome, and good for you. You're in control of this change, which is great, and so likely a little easier for you to keep on the up and up. The one time I was laid off I made a point of thanking the VP for the time I had there and, ultimately, they offered to re-hire me (I declined).
Congratulations again! I hope you get to enjoy your mini vacation. Yes, you deserve it.
btw, you look like a fucking giant in that picture.
Haha, you quoting that line showed me a typo (the comma after office) that I have just edited. Thank you sir.
This is because you're a fucken gentleman, a man of quality and respect and a generally good dude. There's not many left.
I'm looking forward to the break...I had two months off between this gig and the previous so a week and a half is not going to be as nice, but I'll make the most of it.
Sometimes I feel like a giant trapped inside a six foot body, but mostly I'm not a giant.
Thanks for commenting, I owe you for alerting me to the typo.
And it is now forever immortalised in the blockchain. That's immortality for you.
Thank you! I'll need to remind myself of that before I speak to the school Principal tomorrow. But thank you. That's a nice thing to read right before ending my day.
I'll own it. Done far worse. :)
It's an observation based on your comments, how I've seen you interact and your posts. I don't believe I'm wrong. Good luck with the principle. Remember, gentleman can issue throat punches too you know.
Its good to leave on good terms isn't it? It is much better that way. Sounds like everybody will be sad to see the G-Dawg go and rightly so!
And that face, it's damn freaky when you put it on your head like that!
Yeah, there may be crying...Not me, them. 😀
They were saying today that it's going to suck. I'll be honest, it's kind of nice. (I'm looking forward to the new venture though.)
The face thing, you know why I do it although I'd rather not have to. That ass-clown (you now the one) has sort of left me a little jaded. I almost didn't for this post, nearly used a straight up picture of me, (Oakley's on of course), but decided against it. Don't worry, you can subscribe to my Onlyfans and see everything. Use GDOGALICIOUS for a 20% discount when you sign up.
It is kind of nice when you will be missed that much. It's a nice feeling when when leaving a page to know you have made an impact as I have no doubt you have done.
And I get you on that front mate. It did make you jaded knowing there is some absolute arsepiece scouring shit looking for an in whilst playing victim at the same time.
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Yeah man, a gutless piece of crud huh? I remember thinking at the time, I wonder if the person would dare say those things to my face. I figured not. He's scum.
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Yeah, the very definition of a keyboard warrior.
I will be there, but under an alias of course. Standards must be maintained 😉
Lol.
It's here! I cannot believe it already, but, it has come and I know that you are ready for it.
You will be talked about for at least a week and every time somebody leaves, they will bring up the fact that the G-Dog and the gifts and love he showered on them.
Truthfully, you will be missed and that is not a bad thing. You gave them you are all while you were working and you just cannot ask for anything more. Enjoy your time off, well deserved and I am sure will be well spent.
As for me... Hi ho, you know. But, not for long.
Goodnight!
I know right? Last day tomorrow; I hope there's no deal made of it though; I hate being the centre of attention.
I'll wander around and speak to each person personally and hope just to slink out the door come 5pm. Better still would be that I leave even earlier, but I'll stay and do the right thing if they prefer.
I'm not sure if they'll talk about me for a week, but if they do I hope it's with respect for who I was and what I did whilst here. If not, well I guess I'll never know and won't mind therefore.
I'll certainly put the time to good use before I start the new gig. I've got some plans in place and look forward to it.
Anyway, have yourself a good night. Late there, almost midnight I guess. I hope you're off to bed, or if working, find a corner to have a nap! 😂
Oh, I wish it were bed and today was a no go for anything remotely internet.
Take an axe to your computer Swigs, that'll solve the issue for a while.
But I love my Hive! Despite the fact that some days I am overworked and under internetted, I still feel something missing if I don't check in for a minute or two. It's going to get all better very soon and I actually jumped on to see how your last day went. So right now I was reading a coffee blog that you wrote and I'm thinking that it doesn't say anything about your last day. Anyway I hope all went well and I'm going to finish that post and get ready to go. Have a great day and I will definitely catch up tomorrow. As an afterthought, my voting power finally gets to rest. Good night!
I love Hiving too, so I get it.
I'm still in my last day, it's almost 12:30 here. I've deployed gifts for the office people and donuts for the factory staff...I'm not just cleaning up the last of my files and my computer and I'll be done at 17:00 (or other such time as is mutually agreed upon in writing and with all relevant entitlements as required through to 17:00.) 😁
Well, I hope the rest goes as well and I'll be thinking of you in 4 1/2 hours!!!
Wow, I congratulate you, it's hard for me to close cycles sometimes, that you have left in the best way was a mature and intelligent step, many successes in the new job. 😃
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Thank you, for your comment. I guess, for me, it comes from having done difficult things in the past and the lessons i learned from them about myself and what I'm capable of. We're all different and handle things like this differently I guess.
Thanks for your kind wishes, I hope you have a nice rest of the week.
You are right, we are all different and handle things differently, although sometimes some people want to pigeonhole us into a common behavior...🙃
I also wish you well for the rest of the week. 🤗
Indeed, people are quick to judge and label others, and most often it happens without any real knowledge or understanding of the person they're judging. I don't tend to worry though; I'll never be able to change a person's perception of me, only they can do that. So, I work towards being my best self and don't worry about the judgements from others.
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I think it's good that you have that way of thinking, in the end it's the other person's responsibility....
And you know something! in general people, when they have not fully understood that, suffer....
And if you look at it, so much worry and in the end we die alone 😅 Super ironic right? 😃
Yeah, ironic indeed. Life can be funny.
DEFINITELY YES.... 😁
Happy evening or happy day I don't really know the time difference 😅
Hello Galen,
It seems like just the other day I was wishing you a great first day, but I think you made the right decision, by using this job as a stepping stone (aka experience) for an ideal one that's better suited for your skills. It's great that you're leaving on good terms; I never see the point in doing otherwise.
Oh, and thoughtful gifts, which I'm sure everyone will appreciate:)
I'm excited that you'll have some "me time" doing things you like such as hiking and nature walks, and I'm sure you'll dazzle your new employers with your brilliance.
🤗 All good wishes for your 🍾
I know right? It was seven months ago now and the time has flown by. Like you say though, I've gained the understanding I needed/wanted to and will take it elsewhere and (hopefully) stay around for a while. With people not wanting to work here (Australia) there's a lot of opportunity for those who do so companies offer more money and better conditions/perks to grab people. It's a good opportunity.
I finish up here in seven hours and am looking forward to the new chapter, but first I have some time off and I'm looking forward to it.
I hope you're not feeling too emotional (sad) in these last hours...
Oh! Really?
The last time I spoke to an Aussie (an elderly pervert) in the last country I lived, he told me otherwise. He said Aussies love to work and are so keen on working that they'll do it voluntarily... He also told me a lot more BS that went straight from one ear to the other. However, one day I overheard his conversation, well, actually an "orientation" to his "new weekly girlfriend".
He told her she had three main tasks:
I think she was happy with the job offer and moved in right away...so maybe there was some truth the what he said...maybe it's the kinds of job, that some Aussies's are not so keen for?
Just thought I'd mention, and thought maybe you'd know.
I think your comment gives that fellow all the credibility he deserves. That is to say none.
Oh, he was not a great ambassador ...and unfortunately, I had to live with many like him daily. He and I got into a massive argument once over his actions, something that many turned a blind eye to, but I was stupid enough to let him wind me up.
This came through quite clearly.
This is unfortunately the case, all over the way.
We all let this happen from time to time. It's how we learn not to allow it.
That's very true.
In that case, though, it paid off to an extent...he never came back on the property with another "girlfriend"...didn't mean that he changed his ways though 😏...it just wasn't in my face anymore.
Enjoy the short break before starting new. The economy is changing and will bring some new challenges in the next couple of years which could be daunting but also fun, depending on how you look at it.
It's interesting here, no one wants to work. I don't know if that's the case in other countries, but here they can't get applicants. There's even talk about paying people to attend job interviews. Crazy.
It brings opportunity though as people who want to/need to work benefit from less competition and higher pay. The company I am moving to offered a very attractive package, more than I would have expected, and then my company (it's my last day here today) counter offered with even more as paying me more is a better option than the process of finding someone else. I didn't accept the counter offer
There's many challenges in business these days, there always has been really, and those that overcome them will do that little bit better than those who do not.
It is a crazy time right now. Many people are unhappy with conditions and demotivated. It's a time of great change and maybe new ways of doing business.
I'm happy to read your account as it motivates me to take some action in my own situation too. :)
It's great to know you find some motivation in my posts; that makes me happy.
”Director spent an hour in the boardroom with me”
I read that as ”bathroom” first and thought well that could be one way to make you stay at the company, depending on how attractive and skilled the director is 😂😂
Well, the Director is male so it wouldn't have had any impact on me but had that been the case, maybe a female employee might be swayed by spending time in the bathroom with him.
The hour in the boardroom was enough for me.
It's always nice when you can switch jobs happily :)
I agree, and in this case I believe it's the right move, at least based on what I know. Time will tell.
Congrats on the new job! Exciting!
It should be good, but if not...Another leap to another stone out in the pond somewhere. 🐸
Like your thinking. Meanwhile, I'm in demand as a CRT as everyone drops off from COVID. And I dont even WANT the work. still, it's good money and may as well make hay whilst the sun shines!
I wondered how long it might take before the Ed. Dept. Came knocking.
Congratulations in the new job. Sounds like a good decision.
It's nice that you are leaving your current job amicably and are smoothing out the process for your replacement. That's nice.
Enjoy your free time in-between jobs!
I'm reasonably personable, (despite not liking people) and so tend to be likable I guess. I don't see any point to leaving on bad terms and they've been good here, even though they're devastated I'm leaving. I get to hand out gifts tomorrow and they'll probably cry...Then when I leave I'll feel like I've done my best. (Not to make them cry, just to be a good person.)
yeah. Thats probably the best way to go. Goodbyes are always sad - for many people.
Good luck in your next adventure.
Oh dear. I felt all the rush of emotions as I read through. Felt like what happened when I left the last place I worked. I left because they could no longer afford my services. But most of the people I worked with made my time there worth it.
Thanks for sharing this with us @galenkp
You're welcome and yeah, that's a bad reason to have to leave huh? I mean your reason. I hope things worked out for you though.
Thanks for your message.
Actually, I didn't leave. The MD fired me. He thought it the best thing to do to save cost.
Things eventually worked out though.
Thank you.
I understood that; he fired you and you had to leave is what I meant.
oh. Ok.
You're welcome and yeah, that's a bad reason to have to leave huh? I mean your reason. I hope things worked out for you though.
Thanks for your message.
Congrats on your new role, @galenkp. It's lovely that you are leaving this role on such good terms, so please keep looking in that mirror (no avatar needed, lol)
Enjoy your time off, it's essential for well being, isn't it.
Annabelle 😊
Based on your recommendation, I just looked in the mirror. It damn near shattered at the sight of me. 😂
Thanks for your nice message Annabelle, it's much appreciated.
This is me now!
You've got a long way to go to get anywhere near this level, my friend!
Lol.
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Hope the new job goes very well for you.
Thanks, I hope so too.
It sounds like you made a good impression while there. That was kind of you to give gifts.
It doesn't seem like much time since you were taking time off between jobs before. Of course in my world, time seems to go by lightening fast !
Gifts deployed. (It's the morning of my last day today). They were grateful and a little surprised.
Yeah, that was about eight months ago and whilst I'd thought I'd stay here for 12 months an opportunity arose and it was too valuable to pass up, so I took it.
Really curious about the face behind that avatar 😁.
I used to show it, then a particular toxic, anti-hive, deranged, depressed, self-hating,, mentally-disturbed individual was using it in his posts, along with other people's, to spread his destructive and disgusting agenda. So, I stopped using my face.
Oh. So that's the story haha. Anyway, the avatar is also cute..haha
Lol...I've been told otherwise, but I'll take your compliment. 😁
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