Think like a Viking: Part fifty

in Self Improvement2 years ago

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The brave man well shall fight and win, though dull his blade may be.


Each Thursday I select a Viking quote, sometimes randomly but ofttimes based upon relevance or meaning to my life at that point in time. Despite these phrases being over a thousand years old I believe most can still offer value in modern society and I find it interesting to ponder, weigh and measure them. original im src


This week's Viking quote

The brave man well shall fight and win, though dull his blade may be - Fafnismal 28

Today I jumped off a steppingstone I'd landed on late last year and in a week or so I'll be leaping onto another, a little further out in the stream. I refer to today being my last day of employment with one company and my move to another.

Arriving at the last job, the one I ended today, heralded a new beginning for me as it was a complete shift away from an industry I'd worked in for twenty years to an industry I didn't know. The learning curve was steep, and it took a great deal of effort to learn the fundamentals then deepen my technical knowledge. I brought along many attributes required for the role and had the ability to acquire the other elements or I wouldn't have gotten the job, but it was a lot of work and I had to dig deep to make it happen.

Moving to the new role in a couple of weeks will see another shift and bring another set of challenges to face; it's the same industry although a different segment of it, more trucking and transport logistics oriented than manufacture and service.

My role is in management, business development to be precise and I was head-hunted for the new role, by a recruiter interstate. I went through an interview process though, the first of which went for two hours; a solid interview. There were six interviewed in total and I won the role. Moving forward I'll have some learning to do although the curve isn't going to be as steep, it'll still push me however and I'll have to fight for the ground I gain, I'll have to apply effort.

I chose this Viking quote today as it felt relevant to me personally, and not just the recent job change. It talks about fighting, blades and winning and there's been times in my life in which that aspect of the quote were relevant I guess, however it says more than that to me.

I read it to mean that a person, with the right mindset and attitude, can achieve outstanding results despite not having the attributes or be as equipped as others.

I don't believe in the, you can do anything you set your mind to do paradigm because it's untrue.

You can set your mind to be me as much as you like but nothing will make it so right? However, you can achieve your realistic and achievable goals with the right mindset, attitude and actions. I say realistic and achievable because setting unrealistic and unachievable goals is setting oneself up for failure; unachievable goals are called that for a reason.

It wasn't long ago that I was an expert in my field and felt comfortable in the role. I wasn't overly happy with it though, maybe I was simply bored or felt stale, but I wanted a change.

I thought things through and kept circling back to what I was, an expert in my field, but couldn't see outside of that space. I was limiting myself out of...common sense? Fear? Uncertainty? I'm yet to determine exactly why.

But eventually, the person I am, have always been, kicked my own ass around somewhat and I began to see what I was doing, the limiting thoughts and attitude. That was when I stood the fuck up and made something happen. I knew I wasn't going to be suited to every industry, but also knew myself, that I was a fighter, worked hard, persisted, refused to quit and wanted to be the best I could be. It didn't matter that my blade may be duller than some other person's, I'd just strike with more force, use my other attributes, cunning, smarts, ingenuity and so on. I wanted to win, my new role, and I did and have subsequently won the most recent also.

In my mentoring role over the years I've taught some of the concepts I've learned throughout life, the ones that have brought results, and I was often asked what the key is, the silver bullet so to speak.

How can I ensure success, they'd ask.

I usually said, fail a lot, with a smile, and then I'd elaborate. I sometimes said, attitude, or passion, a compelling reason to succeed, and then the conversation would flow into the various elements and concepts around those core things. Mindset and tenacity can be included I think, as the Vikings allude to in the quote above.

I've been in many fights, some I'll repeat and some none but those who were there will ever know about. I've had to find bravery and courage to affect a result and one thing is always present right before that happens; fear. It's no different now, I still fear things.

The fear of failure. The fear of ridicule. The fear of judgement. The fear of loss. The fear of missing out. The fear of being different. There's many different fears a human can harbour. What's common to them all though, is that without the right mindset and attitude they win.

I'm far from the smartest man and neither am I the most skilled, strongest, most handsome, funny, talented or engaging. No...I'm a blunt instrument, amazingly average and nothing at all special. But I fight, and am good at it. I don't know when to quit, but know when to adapt, overcome and pivot to new strategies. I don't always have the right mindset and attitude but know when I do not and make the required changes. I don't always win, but know how to learn from my failures. My blade is not the sharpest, but I find the courage to wield it nonetheless.


That's it for this week, a thousand year-old Viking quote that suggests by having the right mindset a person can achieve great things despite not being as adept at others.

In the comments below, please feel free to disagree with my interpretation and add your own if you like, tell a story around this quote or general topic or simply react to it and let me know what you think, how you see it, how it relates to you or someone you know.

Skol.


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Mindset and tenacity can be included I think, as the Vikings allude to in the quote above.

If I could bottle this and sell it, I would be rich! lolol It is such a simple tenet to ensure that you have the right mindset, but I have found it to be one of the most difficult philosophy to impart to others for some reason...probably my delivery lolol

In my gut, I've always known that the properly set mindset was key to improvement and success and it was so rewarding to find it written by one so much smarter than me in Mindset by Dr. Carol Dweck. She has captured the data and shares it in an extremely palpable manner. No matter where I teach or what subject it may be about, this book is always on the list of reading I give people at the end of the class/seminar.

Us exceptionally average people keep going because we didn't have the option of stopping! Great Viking quote and best of luck in your new adventure!

difficult philosophy to impart to others for some reason...probably my delivery

A big stick isn't always the way, although I've wielded one at times.

Us exceptionally average people keep going because we didn't have the option of stopping!

This is exactly the case mate. It's also got to do with the ability/need we have to do what others can't or won't so that those diverse others are free to make the choice to not do those things.

I agree with you and admire that you so readily are able to change whatever is required to move past and obstacle. One of my favourite sayings: "Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will" was the saying that I read on the morning I decided I would leave an administration job as I realised that it wasn't actually helping me move any closer to the dream I had and wanted to achieve.

Fear is a sneaky buggar - it can start out a tiny little voice of doubt but over time can grow so loud that it drowns out anything and everything else. When that happens, it can be paralyzing and yet, we still have the power to push beyond it, through it even and do what has to be done, it just takes a LOT. This is how battles are fought and how wars are won or lost.

I think it is personable though - every situation and person is different. You in my shoes may be able to make a decision faster or more easily than I would due to our various differences in mindset, personality, strengths, weaknesses and prior experience and the same vice versa.

Again, a thought provoking post, thank you Galen.

A person has the ability to gain understanding and knowledge then use that to their advantage at some other time. Cognitive thought I guess. What makes no sense is people repeating unproductive thought, mindset and actions, and thinking something different will happen this time, that things will get better.

Sure, fear is uncomfortable, but it feels comfortable too, allows people to stay in place with a convenient excuse. (I'm afraid.) But situations can be uncomfortable too, and if they're not changed they remain so.

I agree with all you say. And yep, overcoming fear isn't easy.

What makes no sense is people repeating unproductive thought, mindset and actions, and thinking something different will happen this time, that things will get better.

Well yes, but we are creatures of habit and breaking out of habitual cycles is difficult. Not an excuse to stay in one place I agree.

Breaking [bad] habits takes courage.

Such a good life lesson, thanks @galenkp! I'm still in the fail a lot category at the moment, especially with my mobility (or lack thereof) It's still very much a one step forward, two steps back situation!
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The fail stage comes and goes, as do the lessons we learn from failing. That's how it should be; no one wins all the time, or is successful all the time.

Thanks for your comment.

You are welcome, @galenkp - your posts always inspire me, and the life lessons are spot on. I think it's why I'm a little less anxious this time, as I can see the other side of this.

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Annabelle 🤕

Stay strong and focused on the result. 😊

Will do, @galenkp - slow and steady wins the race (I think that's how the saying goes)

I love the way you explained the concept of not quiting, having tenacity and keeping on the fight.

But I don't quit agree with welding your blade even when it is blunt. Apart from the fact that it would not do a just cut, it can a take a lot more effort than is required...

I think that taking a break intermittently, to assess myself and the situation around me and come up with the most effective way to handle the problem would be a better course of action... That is what I would call whetting the edge of the blade.

There's an adage where I come from,

If I have 10hours to cut down a tree, I will spend 9hours whetting my blade.

Sometimes, when we go at things headlong, as a blunt instrument, we procure injuries 🤕 not only to ourselves, but to people around us.

Yes we learn by failing, but it's better to learn from the failures of others and have a consistent trail of winning...

But I don't quit agree with welding your blade even when it is blunt. Apart from the fact that it would not do a just cut, it can a take a lot more effort than is required...

This is figurative. It means to *work hard, have tenacity, persistence and so on...As per the entire post. And effort? Effort is always required. Always.

That is not to say that sharpening up isn't wise. However everyone has limitations and that's where mindset, attitude and working harder takes over.

If I have 10 hours to cut down a tree, I will spend 9 hours whetting my blade.

If you were in combat with this attitude you'd be dead.

There is a time for learning, skilling-up, honing one's ability, but life doesn't always afford the luxury of time. Sometimes we need to act and cannot take the time to stand back for 9 hours.

Let's just agree to disagree because I disagree with most of what you say above. It's your prerogative to have your thoughts though, and whilst I disagree, I respect that you have them.

This is figurative. It means to *work hard, have tenacity, persistence and so on

I guess I misunderstood being blunt as charging at a problem head first, even though it is fraught with failure.

If you were in combat with this attitude you'd be dead

I realize that a lot of time, life is like combat mode, but I guess that's why there's training before the combat... We are not always in combat.

There is a time for learning, skilling-up, honing one's ability, but life doesn't always afford the luxury of time. Sometimes we need to act and cannot take the time to stand back for 9 hours

I agree that life is cruel and most times doesn't afford us the luxury of time to get ourselves prepared. Maybe the 9hrs taken to sharpen an axe was an overthrow, but the point was to show that life might be easier if we prepared.

But again, I realize, it's one life, and it's not a screenplay, so that luxury can be expensive a lot of times. But, it still is a very important aspect of living.

Let's just agree to disagree...

Ditto.