I am asked for advice often, and getting them to address pros and cons is where I start too. I take it a step further, and write down what they tell me. I have been known to add some points that escaped the first cut.
If it's a life changing decision, I give them the list to read and pray over; and edit for a second meeting. Usually they have made their decision by this time, and I ask them to defend their position. This tends to strengthen their final decision, and bring them peace!
Now for some unsolicited advice for you, take the herbal fever few; and it will stop your headaches before they move to migraines!
Be blessed and keep posting....
That's a good strategy, it keeps them accountable for the decision and therefore the result.
As for the headache, I took Panadol and it's gone. I'm as good as
newold.It does work better with buy in! They also keep to it because they understand why.
I'm glad it's gone! I have helped dozens on suffers with feverfew. The last hospital she was in, I was treating 7 of 10 nurses with herbals!