Job at home sounds bit crazy things but if we look deeply we have to take care of many things staying at home. Apart from the daily chores the one most toughest Job is to handle our kids. Parenting is the best thing happen to someone. But being a parent is not the only thing that one should look for, but also consider the additional responsibility that it brings alongwith in our life.
Today, I get into a very unusual circumdtsnces that put me write this post or rather I am seeking some solution to problems. Today my 7 years old kid just cut her hair by herself. And on asking she lied to me. She said it was the regular hair fall while combing. But actually she was lying which really upset me entire day.
There are two condition that really spoil my day. Firstly she cut her hair even after I stopped her doing the same yesterday. Secondally, after doing it by herself she lied to me like a pro. I think the second instancd is something which really broken me entirely. And I did scolded her. Because as far as I remember I never taught her to lie. But she did it today or may be before as well.
A kid has a innocent mind and as a parent it is our responsibility to mould them either good or bad. No body wants to make them bad and I belive every parents wants their kid to be best. I loves my kid a lot and I think she has realised it and taken me for granted Few days ago one villager told me not to get too close to kids as it will spoil their behaviors towards me. And after today incident I belive the villager is right in his own way.
Scolding is not the good thing to do when it comes to parenting, as it affects the kids mind adversely. But I did it today because of my anger on finding her lie. I am just looking a good option or solution to tackle situation. Where I do not need to go extreme at our kids. And help them realise their mistake easily.
Are their any best alternative avaible.
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It sounds like you are experiencing a common challenge many parents face when it comes to teaching their children right from wrong and helping them develop good character. It can be difficult to know how to handle situations like this, but it's important to remember that children are still learning and developing their understanding of right and wrong. It's natural to get frustrated and upset in these situations, but it's important to try to stay calm and find ways to teach your child without relying on punishment or scolding. One option could be to have a discussion with your child about honesty and why it's important to tell the truth, and to try to understand why they felt the need to lie. It's also a good idea to set clear boundaries and consequences for misbehavior, and to consistently follow through with them in a firm but loving way. It's a tough job, but with patience and understanding, you can help your child learn and grow into a responsible and honest adult.
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They say being a parent is the hardest job, you'll see that you'll still be able to find the right key.
Even if you certainly haven't taught to lie, sometimes children tell lies, you just have to make them understand that it's wrong and above all that a father and a mother don't need to tell lies.
I'm sure you will succeed 😉
Not proud of it but I'm guilty of this. I remember cutting my hair with a scissors after seeing a barber do it at the saloon. Well I'm not yet married or with kids, but I recall my dad hardly scolds. He will rather sit you down and talk to you with love on why what you did was wrong. Then you'll find yourself apologizing.
Scolding kids is not a good thing shaa, but in the sense that you find a kid doing something bad, you should scold her then after sometimes, you have to go and talk to her, so that she never do it again and promise her you still loves her.