I imagine getting married did cost you quite a bit. I have avoided that and will continue because it seems to result in financial hardship for at least one of the individuals. I also believe that people can be committed to each other without marriage, but that's a long debate and I know we all have our own opinions. I'm happy for you to have found your wife, hopefully, your financial situation will turn around. I have a good feeling that you will find this promised land that you speak of, just stay with this Hive & LeoFinance community and we will all do our best to succeed together.