I am happy to be part of the Weekend Engagement Concept Third Anniversary and I want to say a big thank you to @galenkp for the great work. I didn't know the community immediately after I joined Hive but found it while exploring and I have always looked forward to engaging every weekend.
The experience has been awesome so far, the community is full of life and there is no boring moment around the founder who is also the man behind the smooth running of the community.
I am not one of the very good-looking guys in the world and whenever people call me handsome, I quickly take my phone to see if something has changed about me and end up smiling after I discover they were only flattering me. Regardless of what I think of myself, I am still confident about my look. I have never been scared or bothered about what people think about my look, I feel great throwing my imperfect look out there.
The best way I have always been able to describe my look is BOLD and there is nothing else to it. I have taught myself that my look doesn't define who I am and because I see more than what others see about me, I feel confident of my look.
My bold look makes me fearless and confident, and even though I am having cold feet, you can hardly notice it because of my bold look. I appreciate people who love me for who I am and I don't detest those who don't see beyond the look.
I have lots of personalities both good and bad, I can't claim to be a perfect human and among them all, the act of selflessness stands out always. I looked deeper and discovered it is something that runs in the family, probably it's one of the things I inherited from my mom.
Being selfless doesn't mean I place the interest of others over mine but I always find it difficult to look away from things that have to do with others but require my intervention. Sometimes when I can't help, I feel terrible about it.
My act of selflessness has been taken for granted quite several times and even when I made the decision not to be kind again, I still find myself putting others interests at heart. There is really no point in being selfish and I don't expect anything in return.
I don't know if everyone feels the same way as I do when I can be there for someone, it is my biggest source of happiness. I have tried this even during the most challenging time in my life and after any selfless act, I see hope and feel happy at the same time which is enough as a reward for me.
There is no room for negativity around me and I always wear a positive mindset always even in the face of challenges. This positive mindset has helped me overcome challenges and I don't see myself trading it for anything.
Being positive-minded comes with lots of packages for me, it has helped my problem-solving ability improved a lot, maintaining calmness despite being troubled and others are some of the benefits.
I love the fact that this mindset hasn't been helpful for not just myself, I have been able to influence people positively within and outside my family.
These three things about me have helped me a lot through my journey in life. Many times, the people around me always think life is perfect for me just because of these things but they are wrong. Life is not perfect for me either, I have challenges and there are a lot of them but because of the bold look that makes me confident, the selfless nature that makes me happy and the positive mindset that helps me overcome challenges, life looks perfect for me.
What other things do I need to have a perfect life aside from all these? I know there are more but with all these, I feel great always.
This is my entry to this Weekend Engagement topics by @galenkp. Thanks for reading.
That's what I like about you too George. You are always positive and humble.
Stay good and people will do good to you. Just don't be fooled too much by those taking advantage of your kindness hehe.
!PIZZA
Thanks for the love, I have learned my lessons and my approach to helping is quite different now but I make sure I don't deny someone who needs it genuinely.
Happy weekend.
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awesome guys, i love the selfless nature you choose. because with that we can be more enthusiastic to hit various obstacles in life
You are right and regardless of what troubles that might have earned me, I still see it as a good thing to do.
We should never regret for our appearance because we don't have the power to control it and we should feel good how we look. I like how you think about yourself.
Besides your positive mindset attract me very much. I am hopeful that you will keep the positive mindset in the future also.
!PIZZA
Thanks @inistar, I don't look down on myself and I feel good with my looks.
I don't feel intimidated and somehow, I have made quiet a good number of genuine friends. The mistake a lot people make today is putting people's look first.
Being positive has being helpful, no problem is too big with that mindset.
It's obvious in your look and personality that you are bold and selfless and I love it. ❤️
Thanks my princess, you have got a beautiful personality as well. Cheers .
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So much in this single post. I love the three attributes that describes you.
I think we have something in come, the looks. I understand that the approach we take matters in what we become. Most people become intimidated by their looks and it makes them lose confidence.
People judge by what they see but even people who have good looks can be very dangerous whereas people who look bad outwardly have good thoughts towards their fellow.
The intimidation that comes with looks is sometimes not the victims fault, the society have it way of telling you that you looks isn't impressive and these things get to us differently.
I have grown beyond intimidation, I don't care about who find me attractive or not and it doesn't bother me because there are people who love genuinely for who I am.
Yeah... The society is at fault. In my village, they abuse with the part of the body that is not well. No matter what the society approach one's look, one has to outgrow it and feel okay from within.
Good and bad go hand in hand and we cannot deny that good is present and bad is not. Infact both are equally found in a single person