UNINTENTIONAL CHEATING 😱

in OCD3 years ago

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It's your favorite girl @debbie-ese
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Relationship is more interesting when you are with a partner who is really into you and you both share outstanding connections with each other. Undoubtedly, the story may be different when certain issues begin to surface during the relationship and one of the most common relationship problems that could make a sweet relationship go sour within a blink of an eye is cheating.

The topic of Cheating is quite interesting to discuss because of its complex nature. Some partners can boast of being faithful in their relationship because they stay far away from having illicit affairs with another man or woman such as having sex, kissing, smooching etc. The aforementioned are popular forms of cheating that could be easily detected but there are other ways people cheat that they might not know about.

In this post I will talk about some of the ways people cheat in relationships without knowing.

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Cheating happens so easily if care is not taken. It starts from little gestures that people don't pay attention to that you feel is not harmful. The act of cheating creeps into the subconscious of people like a widespread fire and it dominates even before you can think about it. It often starts from those minor actions towards one another that could be perceived as being playful at first and before you know it generates into a more intense impact.

You may be cheating on your partner and not know when you seek comfort in the arms of another man or woman when you have issues with your partner. We tend to confide in another person and tell them about all our worries when we are not in good terms with our partner and this could spark a feeling in the other person. The feeling could start to develop when he or she tries to hug, say sweet words to make you feel better, cleaning your tears and so on. This kind gesture lead to sexual acts, sometimes.

In addition, meeting with your ex or someone you've once had a sexual relationship with could be a move to cheating. Seeing each other could spark up old feelings and in a twinkle of an eye the deed is done. You might not be aware of the intention of the other person so it is best advised to stay off such people if you know you don't have an ulterior motive too. Or more preferably, meet with the person in an open place where you'd not be alone - maybe a restaurant or bar.

Pornography is another way people cheat that they don't know. You may be cheating if you spend more time with pornography than you spend with your partner. Spending more time with porn would create a distance between you and your partner thereby reducing your intimate moments.

Thank you for your time lovelies.
The post is originally written by me 💕@debbie-ese💕

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