After the fight!

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After the fight, what's next?

It's almost a necessary component of any relationship, you cannot be in a relationship and not have a fight with your partner, I do not mean physical throw of muscles.

The little quarrels and argument that brings about anger and probably silence between the couple. That is the almost necessary fight I mean.
So many things could lead to this petty arguments and quarrels.

My major concern is, what do you do after these fights, do you just stay on your own and swim in silence? A short story, I work into a shop one day, met the owner of the shop all angry and the young lady beside him, who happened to be his girlfriend was equally angry.

Being my type of person, I enquired to know what was wrong, the man refused to talk, I asked the lady she told me what had transpired. From what she said, the had reasons to be angry but a simple sorry and his reassuring words were all she needed .

On the other hand that man didn't see it necessary to apologise, so they would rather stay in silence . My point exactly? Fights are not a taboo in relationships, but just as quarrels are a part of us, apologies should be part of us too.

Let's learn to use the word "Sorry", your partner has emotions so always know that your after reaction after a quarrel will definitely play with his/her mind either positively or negatively.

Don't always wait for the other person to apologise first even when you may not be wrong, apologise, show them their fault and carry on!

Let love give you reasons to not stay silent on your partner!!