Your Life, Your Responsibility

in Project HOPE4 years ago

Sometimes, if you are waiting and hoping on people to fix your life for you, you will wait in vain and waste your time. The responsibility of your life is your absolute prerogative. The greatest help you can get in some cases is the one you offer to yourself. You will be surprised to know that the people you are waiting for to help you have much bigger issues bothering them than how to help you. It may be in their mind to help but they have other priorities, so learn to take the responsibility of your life by yourself.

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The moment that matters most to you is the present. How you live the moment and what you do with it is your responsibility. Your willingness to take steps towards the line of your dreams is what moves you forward. The help you are waiting for may be waiting for you to take steps before they come.

You do not need to keep waiting for the "substantial" amount of help to be made available to you before you make moves. You need to use what you have available to make the moves and you will be surprised that the deficient will be sufficient and more helps will be unlocked to you in due course. The worst thing has not happened to you if someone denies you help but if you deny yourself help.

You are the only one with the clearest picture of your dreams and as such, the onus to pursue them lies on your shoulders alone. People may not be able to help you beyond the point they believe in you but you need to believe in yourself all the way.

A friend of mine told me about how he started an agropreneur business. While starting, no one believed in him, not even his family and friends but he kept at his dreams. Even when the required funds were unforthcoming, he was not discouraged but made a start with the little he could lay his hands onto.

Through dedication, taking responsibilities, commitment, discipline and whatnot, profits started coming in and the business started growing. Now, he has become one of the biggest agropreneurs in the state and those that did not believe in him when he started now want to invest in his company. You see, the only distance between your dreams and where you are now is "steps". When you take the responsibility to take steps towards your dreams, they will become actualized.

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As long as the little steps are steady, they will keep driving you closer to your dreams as you take them. Always remember that a little step is far greater and better than no step. Do not wait till you can take a giant stride before you take steps, take the little step today and it will pave way for a giant stride tomorrow.

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Good article, one of the things I believe is that when you start with a project that can change your life at the beginning only matters that you believe in it other people will believe later.

Exactly. You only need to believe in yourself, your dreams and your abilities and in the long run, others will believe in you too.
Thanks for the comment buddy

Our destiny is always in our hands, we need to take a step toward it everyday by taking responsibilities and be discipline about it

That's the truth. We are absolutely responsible for anything that becomes of our lives.
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Hello, your advice is very good, my friend. We must always have perseverance and discipline to achieve what we want, we must not put our future in the hands of others.

See you later friend, successes and happy weekend! 🤝

we must not put our future in the hands of others.

This is exactly the summary of the whole piece. Thanks a lot for this nice comment buddy

Greetings friend @samminator, as usual an excellent delivery which you share with us in this opportunity, it is true what you express in many opportunities we think that someone can solve some aspect of our life and we obviate that we ourselves have the responsibility to do so, your reflections are extraordinary, thanks for sharing them. Successes.

I am glad you found the post worth reading. Yeah, we have the responsibility to chart the course of our lives.
Thanks buddy

Hello friend a good publication, I think it is important that people are aware of that, that their lives as well as their problems and decisions are their responsibilities, and they must assume the consequences of that. Many do not do it but in reality they are doing themselves a lot of harm, in the future they will not know what to do with very basic things, they will practically be little parasites.

Exactly, our actions and decisions should be our responsibilities and we should be ready to welcome the results and consequences of the actions.
Thanks for the nice comment

Hello @samminator
As always, a good subject. Very good title, in case it just makes a good presentation to the topic.
There are people who are always waiting for you to do everything, unfortunately we usually see them, and even frequent them.
I think it might be better to keep them out of it, to avoid them consuming not only time, but energy.

You're right. You should avoid People that are always quick to shift the responsibilities of their lives to others.
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Responsibility is a constant factor that remains in every moment of our lives, so I consider responsibility to be a key factor in the development of our lives. Greetings and thank you for sharing important information.

I agree with you here buddy, responsibility is very important at every moment of our lives.
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Very good advice, my friend. Our life is only in our hands and it depends only on us to get where we want, for this discipline and perseverance are indispensable.

Thanks a lot for your nice comment buddy.
Cheers