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We set different goals, we dream differently about life. Yes, these need to be done, for life. I have never opposed all this. But my thoughts were different. This is why I rarely dreamed, I was afraid to set any goals. I always had a fear in my mind, if I can't realize that dream, if I fail to meet the goal, what will happen to me? I would get scared imagining this, keep myself away!
In fact, I have never thought so deeply about these things, one day in class Sir asked the students, what will happen when you grow up? What is the purpose of your life? When I was asked, I did not answer, Sir asked me, do you have no purpose in life? Everyone in the class laughed as I answered no. But sir did not smile. He asked me why not? I said, I have not yet learned to understand life clearly, so how do I determine the purpose of life? Everyone in the class would laugh at my question, but Sir remained silent, and then he did not ask me any more questions. Really where I don't know about the subject, how do I dream about that subject?
In fact, is life as easy as we think it is, as much as we are interested in dreaming, in setting our own goals? Is the way of life really easy? I have seen that those who talked about various goals or dreams about themselves that day, none of them could reach their goals, many are living an expatriate life, many are doing various jobs, and some are still unemployed! That is the reality. When we dream of doing something out of reality, it will never succeed, that is the hard truth!
Because I was a child of a middle class family, my father didn't have a lot of money, we had to go through hardships, because of which I didn't get anything I wanted immediately, because of which I had to comply with a lot of things. So my dreams were stuck in the middle of the four walls, they were afraid to come to me! There was no way to deny this reality, I had to accept it and control the pace of life. However, the story does not end here, there is more left!
One day a drawing competition was organized in the class, everyone in our class participated, except me. That sir came to me again, said you participate, I will make arrangements. I replied if I can't do something good, you will be disgraced! Sir replied, still you participate, then I would like. Try something, connect yourself, express your thoughts, use your hands and imagination, you don't have to set goals for life. But remember that if you can do that, you will not get stuck anywhere in life, everything will be easy for you.
The words of that day stuck in my heart, I participated but could not do anything good, yet Sir was satisfied with me, because I tried. Sir told me that by trying and losing, he is never defeated, but takes the opportunity to learn something new. Don't think that you are defeated, but think that you have gained some new experience in moving life forward. I don't know why Sir tried to inspire me that day, I don't know why Sir targeted me, but to be honest Sir was able to change my thinking that day.
Today I realize in real life that those inspirations of Sir were really very necessary and valuable to me, since then I have tried, I have not been able to get good results in school life and college life, but to be honest I am not stuck anywhere in life, I am successful in real life. Because I still hold on to those inspirations, still trying to apply them in the way of life, because I know life is not easy, the way of life is not easy. But we have to try with our effort and confidence.
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আমি মোঃ হাফিজ উল্লাহ, চাকুরীজীবী। বাংলাদেশী হিসেবে পরিচয় দিতে গর্ববোধ করি। বাঙালী সংস্কৃতি ও ঐতিহ্য লালন করি। ব্যক্তি স্বাধীনতাকে সমর্থন করি, তবে সর্বদা নিজেকে ব্যতিক্রমধর্মী হিসেবে উপস্থাপন করতে পছন্দ করি। পড়তে, শুনতে এবং লিখতে ভালোবাসি। নিজের মত প্রকাশের এবং অন্যের মতামতকে মূল্যায়নের চেষ্টা করি। ব্যক্তি হিসেবে অলস এবং ভ্রমন প্রিয়।
I like this post a lot.
We can't always win at everything, are not always good at everything, but that doesn't mean we should not try. It is through trying the we have the chance to succeed, or at least to fail and learn one more way not to do that thing so that we can push forward differently, and maybe find success in another attempt.
It's very much like the fear of failure, in fact that's probably exactly what it is. We are afraid of failing, so we don't try. I wonder how many people lived limited and unfulfilled lived because of it. Many I would guess.
A great post, open and honest, with passion, personality and obvious effort. I never watch your video posts, but always enjoy your txt ones. Thanks for your second entry. Nice work.
In fact, whether I write good or bad, I never question myself, because I try to share my feelings and emotions, even though my writing skills are not very good. But I try to express myself, to release the inner emotion.
Yes, as long as we can't overcome our fears, we will be deprived of the taste of something pleasant. So I try to do what I can. And in this case Blockchain is helping me a lot.
Trying to do your best is all you can ask if yourself. You do a good job and should be happy with what you present here. You certainly have no shortage of things to say and say it to a good standard.
Thank you, you always give me great encouragement, which greatly affects the speed of my work.
Yes, Admitting that when we try to do our best, we are able to get the desired result from there.
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Very interesting life story. Sometimes we met good people that changed our life.
You are right, but in this case I am more fortunate, because I have the opportunity to get close to many good people. Whose suggestions were a big inspiration to me.
We all don't have to be something. It's totally okay to not become anything, actually.
When I think about this, one thing comes first to me. What Allah need from me? My money, my good look; nothing. So, in the end, it doesn't matter what materialistic thing we earn.
It's good that you try to participate. But I don't know why I feel that you try very hard/ push way beyond
which maybe not necessary all the time.
But that's just my observation. Achieve your dreams the way you want!
I understand, the essence of your words. However you are responding from your point of view, in this case I have nothing to say, because everyone's point of view is different.
I believe in reality, and since I am a Muslim, I am quite aware of religious matters. Because a huge part of my life is religious.
Yes, Maybe I think a little more about some of the things that help me discover a lot of new things, widen my path even more. I try to make it colorful.
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Yeah, we all are different.
What matters most 'knowing what we are doing' and 'prioritizing what matters most'. I guess you are good at both of them. Don't feel bad even if you can't participate.
For me, my achievement list is long. But now, when I review my life nothing matters anymore. I have seen the 'less happiness' of my relatives with lots of money and achievement. For me, my family life gives me more happiness than anything else.
But I can understand things works differently for everyone. Enjoy your life and do whatever you think right. Don't bother by what I'm saying or anyone else.
(Our discussion is getting far from your post's main topic. LOL)
Stay safe. :) :)
Hi @hazifullah,
In my academic life, I have heard that the worst decision is to do nothing. For long years I thought it was true and that I should always do it in any situation in life. Now, I'm not quite sure. Not making decisions is also an action. I think your ideas are on the right track, the engine should not focus on the fear of failure, but on testing reality, regardless of whether it is failing, as long as you are aware of what you are doing.
Sometimes you won't know, but your, motor must be, learn it.
Thanks for this great post.
Thanks for supporting and encouraging me in a wonderful way.
I think it is better to refrain from making decisions without making wrong decisions. Because the thing I don't know exactly is how I'm going to make that decision.
But it is certain that the fear of failure must be overcome, otherwise the desire to do something new will never be created.
You are right brother. Great thoughts told with simple and precise words.
Have a nice day and don't forget to take good care of yourself in this pandemic.
What an inspiring post although I don't totally agree with everything but i guess its your opinion.
I believe in dreaming, and planning towards a goal.. with that inspiration can come and success becomes iminent
Yes, Each of us has a different point of view, it is normal. Which is why we all try to solve different tasks in different ways.
It is also true that in each case there should be specific goals and plans for achieving the desired success, but it is also true that there must be a clear idea about the goals.
Thanks for your response.
I would say you were very lucky to have had sir as one of your teachers. There are a lot of people who dont have a goal in life. Fine, things get twisted and we might change our route, that's why I still believe in the saying that man propose, God disposes. However, we gat to have plans for what's ahead eventhough it's not clear to us. At some point in life especially when we are still under parental care, we don't seem to understand a lot, but gradually as we approach a certain point in life, we begin to understand that life is not a bird of roses.
I'm glad you got it right with the teachers words. Helping others found in this kind of situation is one thing we all should be cognizance of.
I love this topic. Honestly.
I really like your excellent response, sometimes without any thought of how much we do, again many times we can not do anything with the plan, the situation throws us into a strange equation.
Yes, I’m really lucky to have had the opportunity to get in touch with some wonderful people, along with their wonderful inspiration.
Stay safe!