Small Things in Life

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I'm listening to an instrumental version of Metallica's Unforgiven as I sit down to write this quick post. This is not a typical metal version, it's a medieval version. Reminds me of simpler times. Sometimes with all the junk that fills our head, simpler memories is exactly what we need to reminisce :)

I consider myself a very sentimental person...I put on a facade to hide this fact at times. I don't know why I do that, but I do...so much so that I am known to be a living rock. And yet I still have pieces of rocks I used to collect with my brother when we were kids :) We don't see each other much these days, we rarely talk...less than we should at least. And I have no idea why. Makes me wish we collected a few more rocks together.

I am trying to make more of an effort with my sister's kids, no fake facades.

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The two kids collabed on this one

And yet it's been slightly over a month I last visited them. So when my sister decided to have a bunch of family over from both sides together today...it was the getaway I much needed. I was in a slumped state, mentally exhausted with all the countless hours divulging into the infectious disease notes....watching the market taking losses left and right...I could really use a break!

My two nieces are the first kids of the next gen in the entire family from both sides...my sister being the eldest on our side, my brother in law being the eldest on their side of the family. So if you're someone from the subcontinent you can imagine how much everyone pampers the two!

When we reached a bit late today, as you'd expected they were already surrounded by what seemed like the entire city and a supermarket of chocolates...pringles and barbie dolls. I could hardly see them. As I washed my hands (mandatory covid-19 protocol, we're a family of doctors on both sides LOL), I greeted my sister's in laws.

And that's all that was needed for me to turn into the Pied Piper of Hamelin! The kids threw aside the lure of chocolates and new toys....and all the attention...the elder probably kicked a few who tried to tell her to slow down and before I knew it I was almost toppling over with one jumping on each of my arms.

Made my day, made my week, made my month :)

And I could hear my sister's mother in law telling to the rest of the audience, তোঁয়ারার বেজ্ঞুনের দিন শেষ, ইতারার বড় মামা আই গিয়ে meaning "All of your time is over, their uncle is here!"

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Nice Post;)

I consider myself a very sentimental person...I put on a facade to hide this fact at times.

Just a facade or a full theatrical drama?:v

No, if you have drama you can't hide sentiment! So zero drama, tons of facade! xD

Nothing wrong with being sentimental, consider me one, too. I'm really glad you are having some quality time with your family. My nephew visited me a couple of days ago as it was a great deal of chance to rest a bit from social media. Regards champ.

Nothing wrong with being sentimental

I know mate, I know! But I guess it's just societal prejudice for men to not show sentiment. Not that I really care what society says, but probably some sort of faulty wiring hehe!

I consider myself a very sentimental person...I put on a facade to hide this fact at times.

This is true for me too doc and whoever comes close to me says the same thing, "I thought you were scary and rigid."

Yet as things are now, I cannot really go back expressing emotions all bare and open lol!

It must be nice to be loved by kids! I kinda avoid them.

Yet as things are now, I cannot really go back expressing emotions all bare and open lol!

This I can totally get behind, I feel the same that the facade has gone on for far too long to tear it down now!

It must be nice to be loved by kids! I kinda avoid them.

I'll have to say I'm blessed in that regard! I do avoid kids at times and that probably comes from teaching kids for long, long hours! They can really tire you out hehe! But when it's your own blood, everything seems to change :)

The relationship with nieces is always sweet. I have five of them from two sisters. Every time I go there is a different feeling works inside me. Maybe that's what love is all about.

My two nieces are the first kids of the next gen in the entire family from both sides.

If i am not wrong i still remember about their never ending 5 minutes that you once written about.Glad to hear about them again!

Damn Minhaj! You have a sharp memory, that was such a long long time ago!

Hahaha, i am also thinking how did i remembered, maybe i got the imagination of my niece then and now too.Worked as trigger!

I am late. Sakib always says I am late in curation, comments... now I begin to feel almost everything in life! :) No matter, I will survive! ;)

This last year we felt many things. Anger, hate, love, peace, calm, loneliness, attachment to friends and family. My wife and I felt we were too busy earlier and year 2020 gave us a lot of time with our two kids. I saw that sketch and I remember, several days back my older did a painting. When she is in the mood, she does work which surprises even me, and you know I am rarely surprised. So she came out of her room one late morning and said, I have a present to you for your 59th birthday.... I have no idea why and I have no idea why 59. I am not quite there yet :).,,, but I thought I show you..


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Wow that is such a complex image dada! First thing that caught my eye is she slid in a flag of Bangladesh there, did you notice? :) Whether that was intentional I don't know :)

onek koshto kore khuje ber korlam... worth it