- You want to be screws or an irreplaceable part in the life machine.
A few days ago to find a friend at the company, just as the company he is interviewing recruit, I stood on one side. The staff asked a number of questions, the candidates are very fluent, can be seen was prepared carefully before arrival, making the interviewer is constantly nodded.
Just until the end, my friend, did not ask suddenly suddenly: "As you say you are a stable person, so if the company has a suitable position for you, you will attach long time? "
I am blindly eyed, this is a silly question, not how people say themselves love to fly, only to learn or to play and play off.
Naturally, the candidate does not hesitate to express his loyalty, as if to stick with the company for life.
My friend nodded and ended the interview, then a "×" to the candidate's CV. Seeing people stunned, glanced at each other but did not dare to ask.
Wait until I get back to my office, I ask you, my friend laughed back: "Suppose you are acquainted with a man, first meet the enemy said to want to stay with you for life, How would you think?
I suddenly understood your idea. Every day change, people are thinking strive, there are new advancement can survive and stand at the wind wave head.
My friend, who was one of the founders of the company, did not dare to think for a long time, why would a twenty-year-old man want a stable life?
"The young age, not trying hard to strive for stability, the candidate does not have the thought of improving self-worth, just want to stay in the company leisure to old. The risk of bankruptcy so his company is not suitable for him "- my friend said.
- The stability you pursue at age 25, will be the beginning of the wind waves in your life.
Not long ago, the newspaper reported on the decision to cut manpower at the toll station, complaining fee workers complaining: "I'm already 36 years old, in addition to charging, I do not know what to do, to age I can not study any more, I hope the leaders can consider. " Actually a case that makes people cry bad jokes.
I think the ups and downs of the age of 35, in fact, have been set from the stability of your 25s!
You have 10 years to roll out, to experience the transformation of the world, self-training for your armor sure, but you have chosen to sit still, turning your life into "frog sitting at the bottom of the well".
Constant change is the only constant in life.
- One of the most frightening aspects of a stable life is that it uses temporary relief that makes you confused
"Stability is good, but if it is stable living a boring life, can not make yourself move forward, no learning, no progress, become stuck in place, It's not risky at all. "
One of the most intimidating aspects of a stable life is that it takes a momentary craving for you, so that when you need curiosity with the outside world to reassure yourself with the present state, no Hold on to the advancement, lose the capacity of thinking as well as the ability to improve knowledge.
- With the change of times, "black swan" will be more and more
In this book, "Black Swan" has the following story: To protect deer in the forest, the government has hunted killers of wolves, so the deer live in a stable environment, chewing on trees in the forest. forests are at risk of survival, ecological imbalance. After that, the deer died in the disease. Eventually the government brought the wolf back to the forest, from which the new forest gradually recovered.
The story wants to make a point:
We always have a regrettable mistake, that is, the change, the shuffle is bad, always looking for ways to eliminate them. But as soon as we are trying to find a way to get rid of them, we are more likely to encounter the "black swan" attack - an incident that can not happen but re-establishes our understanding of world
Internal stability, new you make peace, firmly like the table before the three generations!