I'm really sorry to hear this. Fires like that are scary. For a short while I lived in California and wildfires were a part of life, one which told me I needed to move. Too much stress for sure .
Sex with the ex? Oh, come on you. Don't you remember why she is your ex?
!tip .20
The major fires in California recently could have been a wake up call for many but, it wasn't. I can't say I enjoy winter here, which is probably the opposite of fire, yet for some strange reason I don't move either. Is any place truly perfect? Probably not. If there was a perfect place, people would hear about it and screw it up within days.