Inelastic people like plans, routines, charts, agendas. They love to control everything, do the right thing. The moments when plans are broken and things are out of their control require a crisis management on their own. However, to change, to stretch, to be, spontaneous nature is not structured. Then we can try not to love the new and the missing, to make room for the different, to experience only the state of the self, when the plans are broken, and maybe not just to understand it, to focus on our breathing and to let the person come on their own. We can even look for ways to go beyond newsworthiness and invite newwomen. We can change the way we go to work, for example, we can reside in new places instead of familiar cafés, which we are always comfortable with, we can taste a taste of what we call "I do not eat it in life" and read a newspaper we read in a style we do not accept. These are the flexibility of everyday life. @adsactly