Honestly STD aside I personally think long term this relationship wont work. If he does have some sort of addiction or not it'll continue and he will constantly ask you for money or other things.

I understand you truly like this guy and you connected with him and we as humans need that caring and love in our lives but maybe this isn't the person for you.

I'm sure you can learn something from this expirience but I don't think you should stay connected with this guy. It just doesn't sound healthy long term. I know you can find someone else later on.

Hell you're only 33! This isn't 1980 where lots of people were married in their early 20s. Times are changing girl go enjoy yourself have fun and if you find someone who makes you happy then great. Otherwise just enjoy the hell out of life and something will come. Stay positive and look at the bright side you're living in a cool part of the world traveling, your STD clean, and you're on Steemit!!

ENJOY LIFE!!