BAD GRIEF // no relation to Good Grief

in #catsnaps2 months ago

With the death of my cat Curly the feeling of grief is felt. We use the phrase good grief when something goes wrong but good & grief do not go together in my book,

Curly was 17 yrs and 4 months with me. We were very comfortable with one another. He would lay in my lap as I sat at the computer and slept at my right hip at night.

He developed a neurological problem, brain tumor most likely that did him in. He was doing ok with it but only for a short while till you can see he was suffering.

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This picture was taken the day after a steroid shot. The day before Curly came up the stairs making a frightening scream. His left eye had rolled back in his head, he was disorientated and scared.
I rushed him to the Vet five minutes away, where blood was taken and he was given the steroid.
As you can see the eyeball corrected over night but on the third day it rolled back making him blind in that eye.
He was ok for a few days getting around normally until he wasn't.

Curly was one of 3 brothers I named Moe, who died at 2 yrs old, Larry who is still with us and Curly.
Someone had dropped them off in a box at the same Veterinarian down the street, when they were a about 12 weeks old.
I had just put down Tippy, the one cat I had 2 weeks ago when the receptionist called and wanted to know if I would come over, they wanted to show me something.

I figured it was a cat, and I thought it was to early to be thinking of getting another cat.

But when I saw the 3 rascals in a cage together they enchanted me. I studied their behave because I wanted to name them Moe, Larry & Curly after the 3 Stooges.
As it was Moe was the leader, Larry in the middle and Curly the unpredictable one who I often called The "Curly Monster". It was a magical time for the 2 years Moe was alive. Everyday they would give me smiles and a good laugh. After Moe left the magic left with him.
I volunteered at a cat rescue place after that until 3 yrs later 1 month old Dexter showed up, who I fostered and wound up keeping. He wasn't Moe but became his own lovable character.

Then another 3 year when stray pregnant Mama and her 4 babies made this their home

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Curly was a black and tan mackerel tabby, Handsome but not flashy like the other cats. That may be the reason I haven't that many decent pictures of him.
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ R.I.P. my Good Buddy +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

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Sorry to hear that. I can empathise.

I always enjoy your cat postings.

This one not so much.

I wonder how long my Sam Sam will be with me. I would be ok with 17. That is 5 more years. I wish they lived longer.

I wish we could rescue more of them. I see so many out here in my travels.

Yes, to all you say. Losing just one of the gang changes the whole matrix here. Was a good ride with Curly. Enjoy them as much as we can.

So sorry to hear about Curly, Mike!

Indeed, the grief we experience when one of our feline friends departs goes far beyond words. There is a hole, no matter what words or thoughts we share... but they will always stay with us in spirit.

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Thank you @curatorcat. It's hard seeing them suffer and having to put them down. My little cat world is slowly dissolving.

So sad. May Curly sit with You in spirit!

I'm so sorry Mike. Losing them leaves such a large and ugly hole

Thank you Nikv, I have lost 3 within last 3 yrs now, shakes things up. With less cats I can spend more quality time with the ones left. Thanks for supporting my posts. Gives me an incentive to make more. This one only meant to honor Curly.

So sad to hear about this news. Curly is much more comfortable in the other dimension. My favourite cat, Snow, came to see me last year. It seemed they also missed their beloved owners a lot too. It took me almost a year to grief over the loss of Snow.
Hope the rest of the cats would cheer you up everyday.

Thanks Kaminchan, Would be nice to get a visit from Curly and the rest of the gang, Tippy, Moey, Gina, Bear & Scary Mary ...all in the pet cemetery under the dogwood trees I planted from seed.

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Oh, Mike, I am so sorry that you had to part with Curly. It must have been frightening for him and painful too. He was a great companion for you and I know you will miss him terribly. Love and Hugs ♥

Thank You Sunscape, Yes it was very frightening for both of us, but he did have a few good days after the attack. I dread putting them down with the needle but he told me he was suffering. I had to. Love to you and your human and pet family.

I am so sorry as I know how much you love your fur babies.