Every one who has reached his or her peak in life must have put so many things in the rightful place before getting to that stage... In ma own little way becoming a man of your dreams some of these factors should be considered...
ENDURE THE PAIN OF BEEN NEW.
We all have grown up in an era were people just want to climb to the top effortlessly automatic...HELL NO..its not done anywhere...you have to start from a very low beginning because you cant just convince people who are involved on your path to success that you are capable of doing the unexpected ..you might be insulted abused played over waste time with the wrong people but all that should be in your thought is the goals you have set..so you have to withatand the pain...
ALWAYS BE READY TO LEARN..
One big problem on that road to the top is that inability to be patient to learn from those who have been in that field before you..one has to be ready to learn what it takes to be where you want to be...do more of the listening and less of the talking...it also reduces the risk of loosing chances as relating to your target..
REHEARSE.
Always practise it gives and edge over your competitors not minding which field of life you find yourself making you a superior to your immediate environment when your skills are called upon..
KEEP TRYING AND NEVER GIVE UP
have you thought about that link or connection which would push you to that stage you have set for yourself...
Have you been able to take the risk without been scared of failure ..that's what makes the difference between you and your pairs..be able to identify opportunities not minding the risk behind it if it is legal such that you would not create a situation that would raise questions about who you are and your intentions..
Several attempts are not enough until it is done..
MAKING OF CHAMPIONS.
the major problem is now...staying on top when you get there is much complicated than it is struggling your way to the top.. As such do not get relaxed at this point of your life....
Above all have you realised that you have to stay close to your God , pray always not forgetting the fact that he gave you the life that you have lived and your are favoured all because of His grace has kept you going...