Holla Ladies , I just wanted to share something that I can relate to this;
comfort zone, and what did you accomplish?"
Being independent in an early age is the hardest decision of a teenager to make, However given the situation where no one can relay on will make you ignore the possible circumstances that you've might faced in the future but to survive on what's for today. That's the thing for me happend were I can say that I went out to my comfort zone.
I'm a mama's girl, she knows everything to me , my secrets, likes ,rants and even the things I plan to do. She's my buddy, my best friend, my teacher and my savior when someone's bullying me. I used to be around of her, that everytime I need help she's there to give me a hand. If I'm not emotionally good she's there to console me. I feel like everything will be fine as long as she's right beside of me, because she's my mama (Mother). Not until an unwanted situation happened and it turned my life upsidedown. She died, I was only 15 Years old at that time, and because of the accident were in so much debt and my father need to work and even decide to leave us for a while for him to paid it.
So as an elder and for me to take good care of my siblings I need to do the things that I haven't done before like:.
For me to provide our daily needs, I go around to our neighbors asking if there's something I can do or they have some work to offer just to earn money. It's a greatest challenge for me because I'm a shy type person, but to survive I'm just thinking how to earn for me to provide my siblings and even my needs also.
Going to High school at the same time doing some side jobes.
Instead of spending money to have my wants , prefer to have it in our daily needs, and ect.
It was difficult because out of nowhere our situation suddenly changed. I was out of my comfort zone, I had to act as parent to my siblings and it push me to be matured out of circumstances. I was able to conquer my greatest fear which is approaching people around and speak out my concern or even needs.
Because of what happend, I realized that one of the accomplishment I've got is developing myself as a grown up, it build my confidence and make me to stand strong. I was able to understand that in this life surrounded by difficulties nothing is permanent other than changes, that not all the time those person's where we relay and got our strength won't always be there for us and everything happens for a reason and has a purpose. As maturity, I always believe that wherever I am right now is not someone's fault nor success , beacuse it is my choice and decision.
That's all and thank you hoping you've enjoyed it, have a nice day ladies. 💛