A winner is the person that lives life on their own terms regardless of the judgement of others. Someone who has conviction and belief in themselves and stands solid in their truth and integrity. A person who has empathy for, and generously without expectation, adds value to others.

If your father and brother taught you that then I would say you learned what you needed to learn sista!

My mom went through a similar struggle in her life so I can really relate to you in that way. I really appreciate this authentic and vulnerable post.

No wonder you're so bright ;-)

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