I have neither Silver nor Gold, but here is my Gift to you on your Wedding Day

in #counselling6 years ago (edited)

Dear Precious,

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I hope this meets you well, I heard you were getting married today, so I made this gift I consider precious. After all is #wisdom not precious than gold? This gift if you accept, shall be a treasure to you and your children and to your grand children, for I give them with love and pure wisdom. However, if you do not accept it, please silently discard. For this reason, I shall not mention my name here.

  The last time I saw you, I observed that you were adding so quickly in weight and width. When I wondered why a shapey lady like you suddenly became shapeless, they said it was the Joy of getting married. That is not acceptable. If I may suggest, reduce quickly to your original size that you were known before #Marriage, that you may keep your man's eyes on you always. 

I may never have been married, but I know something about marriage. I know that so many marriages fail before they even start, and so I wish yours to last, just as you wish.
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You were a devoted member in our church, singing and dancing for God. We prayed together and we shared together. Your beauty was known from service, will u cease to serve now you are married? My #advice, be responsible, belong somewhere, own something and be known for something other than Mrs. ------.

Marriage is critical, but you can do this things to win the battles :

  • Read books and be informed
  • Register in a gym and stay fit
  • Have the best hair stylish
  • Learn professional catering
  • Keep your Makeup at professional level
  • Have a dream (other than rearing children)
  • keep your contacts alive
  • Request for a saperate bedroom
  • Earn

I have heard them say that trust keeps a Marriage, but I think too much trust makes the marriage boring. Be careful, but splash some water into the boiling oil, if you need some sound. A Man loves a woman and thrives to impress her if he feels that he has rivals. At marriage, he feels he won already and have no more rival, hence no need to impress. You should never let that happen, it gets boring. Keep your friends and communicate with them, and hello, please have some secrets that when discovered are not even secrets.
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Speaking of secrets, I'll advice that you keep saperates rooms and some other saperates stuff. And you may still hide your nakedness from your husband, to keep him guessing. Its also about the little things. Above #love your Husband.

I wish you a best in this new life, till death do you part. I miss you

        Yours Sincerely 
          Anonymous

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