So I was in this Christian dating site. I received 2 replies, although, my pics were already removed and I put a disclaimer that I was not available. One said, sorry for replying late and they already found someone and it looked like I found someone too. The other said my grammar was not good enough. The first, I wish her well. The second I wrote, I took English 101 in college, I don't necessary correct my grammar intentionally sometimes. I do that, to just to test who would read it. To see if the message is more important or how it is given. I told it could be a test on her, but it also could be a test on me, as she saw it that way.
There was a part that bothered me a bit, on the second one. I told her, that it's better to see a person in heaven than marry the person if it helps them in and I hope to see her there. I wonder if that is appropriate to say. It's up to the God above to decide who just made it across. So I do not want to say she isn't going there, I don't know. I don't know her per say, or did I received any sense from above. I should of just say wish her well, who knows who is really online.
From looking at all the replies, I don't know about the site. It makes me feel that it's a setup, where they want you to feel there is a possibilities if you continue on. It's strange, to tell someone that they found someone after a while later.
I should add here, I'm re-reading Element of Style, to try to bring back some of the memories for grammar protocols that I had in college. It's different when you start writing a blog, you may forget some of the rules. Although, I never remembered every single rules.
**Disclosure This blog is based on my opinions. I am not giving professional advice. Anything written here should be taken as an opinion and is the responsibility of the reader to take due diligence as such. Basically saying I may be wrong, right or neither, just saying its my opinions and my voice.
Dating sites are just a bunch of hook-up sites, in my opinion. Anyone can who they want to be in a profile.