I think this is more related to what I would do.
Some people want to travel the world and do crazy stuff in their last year of life but, I think I would focuse myself in spending quality time and conversations with people that meant something to me at some point in my life. It doesn't have to be a long conversation and they don't need to know I'm dying but, imagine being able to have a conversation with everyone who impacted your life one way or another, no matter at what age they did it?
I've done some crazy stuff and travelled a lot. No need for a blow out. Actually, I would strongly consider moving back to my original country.
I really like that you wouldn't necessarily mention you are dying.
One thing I really like is meeting people I haven't talked to in a long time and spending a little time discussing how it used to be. People are too focused on catching up when bumpung into people, but that can be awkward amd it's somewhat meaningless.
What made us connect to begin with? What is our enduring impression, etc. is more important and interesting.