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RE: Engagement by Class (What are the Minnows doing?)

in #engagement4 years ago

I think you're overthinking it a little xD What's the worst that can happen by commenting on a bigger account? :D
I hope over time you'll feel more comfortable in general ^^
Good luck!

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..mm.. well, it's more intricate than that.
I'm not overthinking. I might be overfeeling.. and overly sensitive to unspoken borders/boundaries in people's energies. I am also very perceptive of when people are being genuine and when they are "fake-kind", or even when they are bulshitting themselves. I have zero interest in bulldozing someone over just for some arbitrary "gain for myself", as I know from experience how draining that can be on the recipients' end.

It's not about "What's the worst that can happen by commenting on a bigger account? :D" but more about if I make the other person feel uncomfortable, drained and like I'm leaching on them or on the contrary, that I'm someone that can bring about some sort of value - maybe not with my dust upvotes, but maybe in a whole different manner.

The fact that our society has been "normalized" in people bulldozing one another over with their energies, that's a whole subject on its own one would have to take a separate deep dive in. ;)


Hugs and Coffee,
~Josie~

Ahh that makes more sense and I agree! (Am also sensitive, admittedly I find text energy harder to sense than in person) Which is why I at least try to be clear with what I'm saying usually.
Aww based on your energy I doubt you'd drain someone, likely opposite :)