THINGS HUSBANDS WISH THEIR WIVES KNEW

in #family7 years ago

Men and women are not the same in nature, and as such many married couples make fundamental mistakes persistently.
There are many things in the minds of married men they wish their wives knew. Many do not know how to present it; others try it sometimes and do not like the reaction or results that they get.

The following are the things husbands wished their wives knew:

*COMMUNICATION: (a): husbands wished their wives would not talk too much about everything. Talking is great and wonderful, but men easily tend to get weary with much talking. A husband has the tendency of moving away from a wife who is given to excessive talking, especially if it's focused on his wrongs.

(b) Husband wished their wives would not talk down on them. Women nothing puts off a man like a wife who talks down on him. Such talks crushes the man's ego, pride and self esteem. It brings out the worst in him.
John Maxwell says that in every man Is a king and a warrior; whoever you speak to per-time determines whose response you will get: either the king or the warrior.Do not rebuke your husband no matter what. There is a way you speak to your husband and he will set out to correct whatever impression you have in your mind that you created of him.

(c) Husbands wish their wives would not respond to them in anger when they ( the husbands)are angry or talk in anger.

(d) Husbands wish their wives would not correct them in public

(e) Husbands wish their wives would not nag at them

  • PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
    Husbands wish their wives would pay attention to their looks and appearances. This is because men appreciate what they see more that what they hear. Your husband married you partly because of what he saw, and he didn't lose his sight after marrying you.

  • RESPECT
    Husbands wish their wives were consciously more respectful to them no matter the circumstances at the time. Let the respect for your husband be publicly seen and appreciated as well.
    Thanks for reading.