Thank you sincerely for the support and positive vibes Mudcat. Let me clear up this point for you though. The authorities were not put on us because of a traffic incident. A traffic incident story was fabricated by someone that my ex was friends with. My ex has a lot of medical issues and gets some very sought after pharmaceuticals . One of her "friends" got mad at her when my ex wouldnt give her a bunch of her medicines. This junky former friend of my ex's decided to get back at my ex by calling DCF and making up the traffic story. This bitch obviously didnt care if anyone else besides the intended person was affected by this. My daughter and I had nothing to do with this spat and we paid dearly because of it. DCF knows exactly what happened and followed through with it anyway because that is how they justify their existence. Thanks again mudcat. God bless you and yours