How to overcome persimism.

in #freewrite10 days ago

How do you handle some setbacks that you experience? The answer to this question says alot about whether you are an optimist or a pessimist.
As our faces are different that's how different our suffering are we face various hard trials, some of us even more than others.
Some persons after facing all this trouble, bounce back from and are ready to try again, while some give up after just. Minor difficulties.

The face i give each time i hear " i am not good enough, i am a failure, i am unlovable".
If i hear that from you again 🙄

So a friend of mine recently had a major set back in his business, we feels he isn't good at anything because each time he set his mind to start up a business he fails and because of this feeling he has decided to quit and look for a job.

Well I am not against him looking for a job, but I am against that feeling that because you failed doesn't make you a failure, it's an opportunity for you to stop and reflect.

How do you handle some setbacks that you experience? The answer to this question says alot about whether you are an optimist or a pessimist.
As our faces are different that's how different our suffering are we face various hard trials, some of us even more than others.
Some persons after facing all this trouble, bounce back from and are ready to try again, while some give up after just. Minor difficulties.

So a friend of mine recently had a major set back in his business, we feels he isn't good at anything because each time he set his mind to start up a business he fails and because of this feeling he has decided to quit and look for a job.

Well I am not against him looking for a job, but I am against that feeling that because you failed doesn't make you a failure, it's an opportunity for you to stop and reflect.

How do you handle some setbacks that you experience? The answer to this question says alot about whether you are an optimist or a persimist.
As our faces are different that's how different our suffering are we face various hard trials, some of us even more than others.
Some persons after facing all this trouble, bounce back from and are ready to try again, while some give up after just. Minor difficulties.

So a friend of mine recently had a major set back in his business, we feels he isn't good at anything because each time he set his mind to start up a business he fails and because of this feeling he has decided to quit and look for a job.

Well I am not against him looking for a job, but I am against that feeling that because you failed doesn't make you a failure, it's an opportunity for you to stop and reflect.
So instead of giving up, notice those negative thoughts and catch them, challenge them and focus on the solution.shift from problems to what you can do.

Learn to show gratitude, and surround yourself with positivity.
Set small goals and take action to achieve them, celebrate your Little win and keep working.
Consistency is key. Change your focus, change your life.