Hey! Holding a grudge can be detrimental. There is an old saying how if you plan to give back revenge, you better dig two graves. Anger consumes people. But also forgiving can be bad if we do it constantly without letting the other know what hurt us in the first place.

I now believe in the power of saying calmly the things that hurt you so people would know. Of course that there is the risk of them not caring, not apologising, not changing. But at least we will feel good with ourselves for making the courage to speak our mind and show that we were hurt by some behaviors.

Thank you for reading😊