Life is tough when things doesn't go as planned and finding oneself in a situation where we never aim to be can be very challenging especially when you have no one to depend on or to ask for help. The past few months have been very tough for me especially losing someone that is so close to me which is my mum and to be sincere it is so tough to bear because this is someone that have been so supportive to me in her little way of putting smile in my face.
The truth about losing someone so special to you cant be irreplaceable especially when it involves mothers because when they are gone, they are gone. Other relatives will only try to fit in that space but they wont play that perfect role your real mother showcase. As humans we wont know how precious some people are to us until we lose them which is why it is very much advisable not to turn anyone down but show love to people around us.
There are times when people lose loved ones where relatives volunteers to help by ensuring the children of the deceased never lack anything but then majority of this same relatives never fulfill their promises instead they turn their back by facing their own problems. I have been in this situation before when i first lost my dad where relatives promise to take care of my education with that of my brothers but never for once made an attempt.
This unfulfilled promises can only make one feel bad when you go to them for the help they promise but still end up giving excuses. This is the unfair part of life where we just have to keep pushing for better days. Imagine situations where you have hope of gaining access to your parents properties to rely on and then there is a competitor that is challenging you for the same property all in the name of family.
We live in a world where no one cares, when one is gone life continues immediately. Experiencing pain without gain is like a wasted effort when things around you dont seem to be normal especially when putting in more effort to bounce back from struggle but still end up achieving nothing. This however is part of life as things dont seem to come easy but putting in more effort to be better can still change situation.
The feelings experiencing more pain in a challenging situation is not an easy one because everything that comes arounds you seems frustrating as there is this mindset that nothing good might come out. But we need to understand that when there is no pain there is no gain. Hard times dont last but it takes courage, patience and determination to bounce back from tough situation.
it is quite discouraging to experience pain without gain from situations people put you into where they only try to use you without showing gratitude or pay for the service rendered but in another way round, it is a motivation and challenge that one can bounce back from struggle and be better in the the future which is not easy but will be worth it someday.
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