Someone said the other day that some people 'tend to use Hive as a diary'. I find myself doing this more and more as I'm too busy moving and renovating for anything else, and to construct a more cohesive, intelligent, informative or creative piece seems a little hard. So, today's post is yet another mash up - with a musical soundtrack, which sums up my life right now. I do need to get on to writing about the bluegrass festival in Bright last weekend, but today is not the day.
Yesterday the concrete breakers were in demolishing the concrete patio out the back. Yep, there's a little drama there but I'll save that for another post. But here's the little grandson torn between going to the beach with his buckets and watching the man with the huge saw. He's such a clever little mite. I was explaining about how it's all cut like a big piece of cake and they have to take each piece out at a time. He was fascinated. Boys and power tools, amirite???

This morning, in that nice quiet half hour whilst we are snuggled in bed drinking coffee and running down the day, we heard the news of Jimmy Cliff passing. He wasn't my favourite reggae artists, but it was one of the three Dad had on vinyl in the '70's so I remember it clearly. I feel like all the old musicians are dying round the same time as Dad, one after the other. It makes sense - one day all the young musicians my age will be dying too. As will I. Depressing, much? Or just grateful that we had them at all?
Whilst I could put some of his more famous tunes, like 'I Can See Clearly', I love seeing old footage of these reggae greats when they were so young. And I love a bit of rocksteady. It always makes me happy.
Before the little one came I was trying to tidy up Jamie's shed and hard wax oil the last bit of benchtop with the screeching of the metal saw against concrete. It was a job for noise cancelling headphones and for some reason I thought of Lucinda Williams. I haven't listened to her in years. Dad was a fun and me and my mate Noot, who I used to live with, loved her and went and saw her live, around early 2000's I think. She's dubbed too rock for country and too country for rock - that about sums her up. Her album 'World Without Tears' is one of those perfect albums - I fucking love it. I forgot how lyrically awesome she is as well. And this albums is sexy a.f.
'Be my lover don't cause me pain, just play me John Coltrane'
As I move more boxes down the coast today I'll be listening to her again, going back to 'Car Wheels on a Gravel Road', which was the first album of hers I heard via Dad. Dad was amazing at picking up music no one had heard of back then.
I also forgot how tenderly awesome this song is as well. It's about a women who's with someone who was abused as a kid, and it shows in his moods and persona. He's gruff and hard on the outside but she understands why - and sees his sweet side when no one else does.
This is a gorgeous version of it with the slide guitar. Slide's always gonna remind me of Dad and a lot of the music he used to listen to. It's a more acoustic and raw version. It's also her when she's way younger. She's 72 now, still touring, still playing music, despite suffering a stroke and not being able to play guitar. My Mum's 76. I have feelings.
You're tough as steel and you keep your chin up
You don't ever feel like you're good enough
You've had the blues ever since you were six
Your little tennis shoes and your pick-up sticks
You were screamed at and kicked over and over
Now you always feel sick and you can't keep a lover
Every Christmas there were presents to unwrap
But the things you witnessed when you were five and a half
With Love,


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OMG, how have I never heard of Lucinda Williams till now...? I suppose it's the old "too many musicians/bands, too little time" thing, but sheesh! I've played that song "Righteously" at least five times now, maybe six, and I'm not done yet! 😂 I need to sleep now, it's 1:00am here, but I am gonna look for that album online tomorrow morning, preview it, and buy it if the rest of it is as good as that one song! THANK YOU for the heads-up on her! 💖
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Omg I'm so excited that you liked her this much!!!!!
Awhh🥰 The photo of the little man is so cute. What's he carrying in his bag? Is he nicking your flower pots?
Ha no they are buckets for sand castles!!!!
It's wonderful to have a place like Hive where we can share past and present experiences, as well as many other things.
As for music, it's a companion that we may miss in some tasks, and there will always be songs that are our favorites.
I love hearing about what people all over the world do with their daily lives!
Legend - Thanks for sharing these. The pumpkin says, "I am king because I am orange."
Dad was my first music influence, too. I got some sense for classic from mom, but Dad was more on the rock side - everything, really. He had no "real" taste of music, he just went into the Electronics store that also sold CDs, put the headphones for sample hearing on and spent an hour there, listening to everything available, and then buying one or two. Meanwhile, me and my brother were in the video game section. Mostly just looking, but sometimes, when we were lucky, "testing" the product as well. As if we would buy. We were never allowed to have consoles.
Lucinda Williams is some solid music. I like that. Thank you for sharing!
I'm glad you liked it. She's amazing! I'm neither country nor rock and roll really but she's great.
Your Dad seems very much like mine. You know he got a big compensation payout before he died and as he would never spend it (as he'd be dead soon) he spent 10k on speakers and 3 k on the most awesome headphones you can imagine(AUD). Now that's someone who loves his tunes.
Yeah that sounds like my dad. When tube speakers came out, he got some of the really good ones (Sennheiser), and raved about the sound quality. Which is interesting, because his hearing wasn't the best. Then, when wireless headphones were the thing, he got some of those, too. He loved to spend his money on those things. But he did it too much, and never saved a dime. He would've lost his inheritance if it wasn't for my brother taking out a loan for paying out the siblings and renovating the house.
It’s nice to see how family, music, and memories all come together in your life. I love how your grandson’s curiosity and your dad’s music create special moments and keep memories alive.