THE VALUE AND WORTH OF SUPPORT SYSTEM

*Have you ever felt so alone in your life? Why? *

Tell me something about your story as I will tell you mine.

I would like to share with you guys something about not being alone because of support system. I am indeed living independently for quite a year now, however I never felt alone the entire span. You know why? Because I have a support system. My friends. They are my treasure. You see, it took me a very long time to realize that I need to have a backbone as I live—a support system. They are the ones whom you can give your all without any doubts. The ones that you felt who will be there for you the whole time, through thick and thin, through best and worse times, through ups and downs.

The reason why I am here, writing and sharing these matters to you it is because of my loved ones, which are my friends. They’re part of me since day one. I tend not to have so much friend for a reason that I don’t wanna be forgotten and left behind but who knows what God’s plan is? The only thing I know for certain is whenever, whatever and wherever that is, I am consumed by everything that they do for me, as I do it to them. Sometimes in life you will find people who changes your life by just being part of it—unnoticed. People who can make your life bright & full from dark & empty. People that you must be grateful for. People that you should be with. Please allow me to share with you guys some snap of me and my friends having the best time of our lives and ofcourse these snaps wouldn't be complete without @dheannn .

Time is a thief, indeed. Looking at these photos that we took at our happiest times was overwhelming. Everything is fleeting. What you are doing right now, you might not do it again tomorrow. You will never know what future awaits for you as you are now living in present. We don’t often realize that a moment might be our last with these people, assuming there is always another time. In life, you will realize there is a role for everyone you meet. Some will use you, some will love you or some will teach you. However, always put in mind that the ones who bring out the best in you are truly worthy. They’re the amazing person who will make you realize that it’s worth living.

There are always so many people that will only want you at your best, but so few that will genuinely stand by you at your worst. As time flies so fast—unnoticed, you’re gonna outgrow friends, you’re going to grow distant because you need to move forward instead of staying at your comfort zone. Your growth will show you the enemies you befriended. You are not losing friends, darling, they are. Whatever it was, it cause the friendship to fade. And that fade friendship turns into acquaintances and then into strangers. Again, everything is fleeting.

We live as if time is limitless but in reality it’s not. Be grateful for the support system who’s willing to stick with you through tough times. Loyalty never falters, never forget to cherish the rare ones. Value the friendship that survived hence the silence and space. These are the connections that never dies. Honor the ones who stayed with pure intentions. The worth of authenticity of your decision will make them in awe. We only got one chance in this thing called, life. Keep growing towards a better you with all the backbones you have.

Until the next blog. Thank you!