Who Are The Power People In Your Life

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Before you began to read about the four types of powerful people who can affect your life , you must ask yourself ,"Who are the powerful people in my life?" who are have influenced me the most, positively or negatively? be honest.no you don't have to show anyone this list; it is your own personal work. But you must be honest and courageous enough to identify these this people. why? Because as you began to read about the four type of powerful people, you will want to ask "How does these people influence my life, for the good, bad or ugly?" Who is it, How does the person influence, and very importantly, why are you influence by them?

What does influence mean? it means asking whether this person's words, actions, or behavior consistently:

• Cause you think differently about your life in a significant way,
• Affect the type of significant choices you are making in life or
• Significant affect your action or behavior. If you allow it, anyone can influence your life significantly.

"Just Is"
We have two categories of people in our lives. The first group of people did not choose, such as parent, siblings, and relatives. I called family members the "Just Is" people. some people spend a whole lifetime wishing they had different set of parents, siblings, and relatives. Also included for "Just is"people are spouses and children. never regret you "Just Is people have given but headache, pain and misery.
The key to living without regrets about your "Just Is people are in our lives for a purpose. You have to be friends with your "Just Is" people; you have to be respectful and kind! that's it! the holy Bible tell us, "Honor your Mother and your Father," It doesn't say you must like them! As a matter of fact, you don't even have to hang around them! for some of us this is a major revelation.

"Choice people"
The other category consist of choice people, there are people we choose as a friend, mentor, acquaintance, or pastors. for example my parent were some of the most powerful and influential people in my life meant that you will have to understand how and why they have such power.
Be honest, those who influence your life could include your parents, mentor, even your children. a way to think about "choice people" is to ask these questions:

• Who do I talk most of the time about importance issues?
• Who do I spend most of my quality time with?
• Whose opinions do I respect, fear, or admire
• When I need to make important decisions, whom do I consult?

Don't consider the order of the names or how many are on the list: just start writing. when you no longer think of those who influence you, stop writing.