Hi everyone, I'm Abeegail, welcome to my blog, I'm a teen who likes to ramble a lot but you know what I find mind-bogglingly funny is when people look at me as nice and think gullible, naive or stupid. My mom would always say I'm too gullible or naive, that i let people walk all over me, she would tell me not to be overly nice. I have fallen out with people but if those same people come to me for help I would help if I can. People see this and the next thing that comes to mind this naive or gullible. Just because I'm nice doesn't mean I don't see this stuff you've been up to, doesn't mean I don't hear what you have said or done behind my back, I do, even when I'm not looking I just choose peace over stooping down to your level.
Especially in my part of the world, where if people notice that you are nice or calm, they would want to exploit or take advantage of that. They expect you to match their energy everytime just for drama or their entertainment. They make it seem like you are crazy for being calm and soft-spoken. Forgetting that we are meant to treat each other with respect. It's as if having empathy cancels out intelligence, like I'm automatically stupid. But being nice doesn’t mean I can’t feel the energy. It doesn’t mean I don’t see the manipulation, or the subtle disrespect. It just means I value my peace more. It’s much harder to stay kind without letting people walk over you. So no, being nice doesn’t mean I’m stupid. It means I’m aware, and I refuse to let your actions affect me or change who I am. I know when I’m being played, when someone’s lying, or when energy shifts, I just don’t say anything.
Being nice is not a weakness. I'm nice because that's how we should treat one another. It takes strength to stay calm when someone’s trying to get a rise out of you. It is another level control to respond with kindness when you could easily match their energy and destroy their ego. But some people think, “Oh, she is clueless, she didn’t say anything, so I got away with it.” Meanwhile, I am pretty clear about what exactly happened, but I refusing to give them the pleasure of seeing me stoop low.
At the end of the day, niceness is not ignorance. It’s restraint. It is maturity. I don't care if you say something behind my back or whatever, I still think we should be nice to people that we don't really like.
It's Abeegail ✨💗
Soft heart, Sharp mind.......always,
Thanks for reading 😊
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