I have no issues with my partner having an opposite gender as bestie cos I understand such situations and that doesn't mean they're into any affair but allowing him sleep over in her house? NAH! I can't allow that.
Not because I don't trust him to sleep over in peace but because we are all humans and flesh could take charge any moment and that's why you shouldn't test a dog with raw meat all because you think you've trained it not to eat it.
My Friday is gonna be to continue with the portrait I'm making so I can finish up on time, then eat and sleep at midnight 😉😁
Omo. What if he starts calling her too frequently? What if he starts telling her secrets ?
Yayyy! Good luck with the portrait.
That means I have failed as a wife if my husband chose to tell his secret to his bestie and not me. That doesn't make me insecure about them but insecure for myself.
No matter how much my partner loves to talk to his bestie, I should be his bestie who he is always ready to share his every dirts and clean talks with. I'm not saying some men don't take it for granted or otherwise but that's why you have to be sure of whom you're spending the rest of your life with before entering into the ship and not ignoring any red flag.
I have opposite gender as besties (2) and that doesn't mean I have any string attached with them so with that I can judge that not everyone has a fling with their besties. It only depends on choice, the boundaries you set and determination on what you want to do
Hmmm! This is deep. The first part of this comment is really deep. It sounds like what someone I know would say. The same thing should work Vice Vera. If your wife shares secrets with other people, then you have failed as the husband.
Exactly you get my point now.... And another angle is someone who had noticed the closeness btw the two besties while still dating or courting, after complaints or calling to order there's still no change, then in such situation, there's no excuse for you ending up in that marriage where your partner relies on bestie than you.
It's either he/she changes when you come into the picture, though he/she still keeps the bestie but he/she is now very much attach to you and that's where the limits to the closeness with the bestie begins.
What if it's natural that men and men date or marry themselves, would we say they can't be besties as well?
If he/she really wants you, then the bestie should be out of the picture. You can’t eat your cake and have it.
You can eat and have it o if you don't chew it all 😂😂🏃🏃 All these proverbs
their topic of discussion , that what should matter
Topic of discussion?
I have shi oyinbo so
And it's always with you
Ah! You are confusing me o.
Don't worry I have edited it check again
Too late.
You get ittttt.... Their topic of discussion
I can't expect them not to gist with themselves or discuss issues but you would sense it off when it's not a typical thing to talk about and that's when you come in cos everyone is prone to commit errors. It now depends on the partner to adjust if one has not missed it when choosing a life partner
Na so o. Him sleeping over or her sleeping over? NO NO NO.
Yeah I won't accept that too... Aani reshu 😂
😂😂😂😂 Ki esu gan ma lo ta felefele de odo mi.
😂😂😂😂 I was expecting a question of interpreting what I said I
As innnn 😂 Ki eshu ma ta felefele cos one leg trouser no go contain us
He cannot do that na
Don't say that o. Some people go take allowance if you give them small "allow"
😂 issoright then I hear
That's the power of trust exactly.... At the same time we shouldn't risk the unriskable
That's why the Yoruba adage says "Bi ogiri o ba lanu, alangba koni wo Inu e" (If the wall no crack open mouth gadagba, lizard no go enter am pass 🙃😉)
My dear you are on point on this .
Abi now. This life issues na like 6 and 9. The side it shows to us often make us judge the world or situations in general and that's why all our perspectives can't be the same
Omo, you get mind o.. I seriously can't permit my partner to have best friends of the opposite gender, what is wrong with me? Can't I be that friend? And for sleeping over.. Omo.. are you kidding me?
Lol seriously I don't have issues with it as long as it's a healthy one but sleeping over? Hell no 😂
Sha, you na strong lady.. no be from best friends him go get mind go sleep over?😂
See na when house no sweet man dey get mind to sleep over except if na promiscuous man before. He no go even dey calm until he reach house cos na where hin treasure dey be dat not outside
Hahaha there's always a first time to everything sha
I can't oo. I can't start what I can't finished, it a no no for me, no female bestie anything. Abeg
Lol 🤣.... I understand we have different appetite but what if he chose to cheat with a casual friend of he doesn't have a bestie
It's a determination and discipline to not cheating your partner either it's a bestie thing or casual friend
Hmmm 🤔 true sha but still, I won't allow any bestie anywhere oo.
Mama no allow am o abeg 😂 cos that two oo means a lot 😂
Hahahah I can't start what I won't be able to finish ooo .
Yeah it's actually safe to play safe if you don't feel safe about it 😉
I no fit try am o