Change is inevitable.

Being stuck in a specific cycle of life? :--_MAKE A CHANGE.

I am not perfect and I'm not considering been a perfectionist but a progressionist, I strive just to progress in my endeavours.

For the longest time if not few months ago, I found myself stuck in a cycle of doing the same things, making same decision over and over again and expecting different result

Every morning I would wake up after saying my morning devotion I would start thinking of what to eat and where to go outings, what's the latest trendings on social media platforms and how my looks are concerning my haircut every weekends without looking for a way to structure my study session on how to be productive and create assets around me and not creating liabilities instead. Unnecessary things and materialistic things just took over my entire brain cells thinking that's how life was.

Waking up one morning and saying you want to make a change isn't the problem but starting it and sticking to it with consistency is actually the big deal there, many has started but return back to the old ways with or without them knowing it. Consistency sounds easy but it's very hard to adhere to. It's not like this choices were difficult but having to make thm every single day felt frustrating. I didn't get to know how much energy I was wasting on routine that would have been decided ahead of time. Time they say is not well spent can't be recovered.

On one fateful day, after spending yet another morning on my normal routine, it finally hit me -- I needed a True change in my life and to be dedicated on it. I noticed I've been spending too much mental energy on small, repetitive and sometimes unnecessary choices instead of using that energy on being productive and things that mattered. So I made a decision, instead of reacting to life I started to be pro active and thinking ahead and working towards achievable goals for future sake.

The first thing I tackled was my clothings. I realize I was spending too much time everyday figuring out what to wear and how to please others, so I chose a better way to minimize the attention as far I wasn't walking around naked I am good, I shouldn't always dress to please but to be comfortable and appear nice. This was a simple change but the impact was huge, I now have more time thinking about more important things.
That's how my day started with ease instead of the former stressful thoughts of impressions.

Encouraged by this, I applied the same mindset to other aspect of my life. Instead of always jumping from one social handle to another I made it a 50 50 session, half for educative post on social media the other half time was for reading books and studying. And yes valuable courses and skills can be learnt on the internet too, depends on how we channel it.
Little by little I started removing unnecessary things from the table of my life. I started gaining more focus on things that a productive and involve brain work, more mental clarifications and sence of control.

When we take time to plan ahead we as well free ourselves from the constant stress of smaller decision and then create space for urgent and necessary things even bigger achievement for future growth.

Looking back I realized this little mindset shift changed everything
Instead of wasting energy I channeled it to something beneficial to my life.