One silly matter put a full stop

Humans are social beings, and they can't live alone. With time, we start to grow up and create bonds with others, which are known as relationships. Relationships can be the bond between friends, family, lovers, or relatives. Each relationship has some value in the life of a human, but all relationships don't exist all the time.

Some relationships end for various reasons, and the reason can be a silly one too. Sometimes a silly reason is enough to put a full stop on a relationship, and I believe that most of us have that kind of experience, and I am not different either. Today I am going to share about it.

It was the time when I was in class 10. I used to go to school and return from school with one of my friends who also lived in the same building as mine. As we spent most of the time together, we became close friends within a short time.

I can clearly remember that one day I warned him not to shake his leg while writing because it was a very disturbing thing for me while writing. One day, he was doing that again and again instead of warning him several times. He told me he could do anything he wanted. He ignored me, and that made me angry on that day. So I didn't talk with him that day and returned home alone.

The next day, my mind became a plan and I decided to forget what happened. So I went to his home to call him and go to school together. He ignored me and refused to go with me. In school, I tried to reduce angerness. I was doing it instead of not making any mistakes because friendship was important to me. He continuously ignored me, and he didn't talk with me for 3 days instead of I kept insisting on talking with him. It was a kind of humiliation for me in front of others when the mistake wasn't mine. After trying for 3 days, I became angry again, and I gave him a warning that if he wanted to remain my friend, he would need to talk with me on that day, and unfortunately, he didn't talk with me.

From my nature, I was stubborn, and whatever I said, I actually meant it. So from the next day on, I stopped trying to insist that he talk with me. I totally stopped communicating with him. After some days, he realized it, and he approached to me and tried to talk with me. Because of my stubborn character, I started to ignore him completely. We lived in the same building, and we met with each other in the school, but we didn't talk with each other. He tried to make me come for several days, but I was like a rock, and nothing could stop me, even if he apologized to me and realized his mistake.

After that time, we didn't talk with each other for 6 months, which was a really surprising thing because I never thought that I would spend so many months without talking with him. After that, we were admitted to two different colleges, and our communication also stopped. After a certain time, my family took rent from another apartment in a different location, and we became separate. Many times I have seen him, but I never try to talk with him. After approximately 3 years, we met again on the road. In the first sentence, he asked me how many years I wouldn't talk to him. On that day, I talked with him and said it's the end, and it wasn't because in those 3 years I became more mature.

Although I talked with him after 3 years, the gap created in 3 years was impossible to recover. So the friendship ended like that, and now I don't talk with him. Sometimes I just think about it, and I can realize that it started with a few silly things and ended with breaking up the relationship between two friends. Believe that both of us have done wrong, and because of my stubborn character, this friendship met a dead end.