To love someone and be loved is one of the greatest feelings of life. Everyone's religion, Culture, and Tradition teach everyone to love each other in their unique ways. One of the greatest loves I have experienced in my lifetime Is family life and love between a man and a woman. I have seen my loved ones and people outside go beyond expectations to make their loved ones happy and to put a smile on their faces.
One major characteristic of love I know is that love can heal wounds and pain. Although not all wounds can be healed like loss of lives and other factors experienced as heartbreak, disappointment, and love can heal these experiences. But can love alone be enough?
I have gone the extra mile to make someone I truly appreciate in my life to make him happy, although I got disappointed by him in some ways and manners later being able to understand each other makes us still best of friends. I am not a friendly guy, but when I get close to someone around I get very close that I don't mind risking something special to fulfill promises and make the person happy.
Based on Financial security Love Alone focusing on my life experiences and understanding can never be sufficient, love is like a foundation we build ourselves on to have a happy Life and not a lonely one. Financial security to me comes first over any other experiences of life. In today's life, people take finance as the key to love. Or maybe is because of the experience I have had.
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One major reason why I will say financial security stand over love is that I have seen a 7-year relationship of proclamation of true love ended because the lady followed financial security and freedom over true love. Very hurtful to hear this. I felt really bad for my friend when this happened, the guy cried really bad. I remember how they went out to eat, the smiles at each other, how they always played with each other but all this ended just like that be a she saw a man richer than my friend and she chose money over all feelings and beautiful experiences. Although people always say not all ladies go after money that some choose love over financial security but how can I believe this to be true when I have experienced a 7 years of true love relationship ended just like that just because one man was richer than her boyfriend.
Financial Security Breeds love, when a man is financially free then love will always be there no matter what either from Friends or from family. Money speaks for people.
Talking from experience I have been hurt, humiliated and heartbrokenseveral times I find it hard to trust anyone except my parents so I would say I will choose financial security over love. Let the Money speak for Love.
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Financial security is indeed important in a relationship and no one can argue about that. But then not all ladies are after money have seen this with my own eyes and believe true love still exist.