GIVING UP IS NOT AN OPTION || WHY YOU DON’T ALWAYS GET THE RIGHT RESULTS YOU DESIRE

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Yesterday, I wrote about my hive experience and one of the things I learnt from the experience is that those who remain persistent later enjoys the reward.

This is similar to the famous quote, who laugh last, laugh best.

I write this post not to all Hivers out there but to myself in particular not to give up on other aspect of my life. The truth is not everything about me is doing as fine as you think, there are some things that bothers me that I do not share here.

I am quite at edge of loosing my mind because I didn’t get the expected result of all the effort I had put it. I had been in deep thoughts for days, thinking about my life and everything I sacrificed but yet all went to avail.

In order not to give up, I am using the experience learned from different scenarios of how I had stayed persistent and all ended for you. As they say in my country pidgin language: Na Who Give Up, Fuck Up

From what I learnt on never giving up towards a goal, I leave you some tips towards achieving your goals below:

1. Always question your methods toward achieving a goal: When trying to achieve a goal and it’s not working as expected, it may not be that your effort is little but your methods may be wrong.

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If you stay persistent without questioning every method you take you might end up keep doing the wrong thing and expect the right result. The truth is:

No matter the effort you put, if you keep up doing the wrong thing, you would never get the right result

This is why I said I am going crazy. I saw that I kept putting a lot of effort on the wrong method which gave me a result far from what I expected. Now I have been feeling pained in the heart and deep in thoughts for some days now.

2. Always reach out to people who had attained your desired goals: This is very important in order not to waste your time doing the wrong thing and expect the right result.

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Having a mentor to guide you would smoother the quest and guide you from errors before hand. Attaining your goals would be a lot faster and lesser effort compared to the effort you put in when doing the wrong thing.

So therefore, question your methods when you apply so much effort and yet no forth result

3. Check the Internet, meet people and read their stories: The Internet is One way to get motivated never to give up by reading the stories of people who had attained the goal you dream of.

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These stories would inspire and drive you to put in the required effort in place. Moreover, in these stories you would know the methods they put in place and move in the right course of direction.

Now ask yourself, are you applying the right method towards achieving your goals and are you applying the effort required to do so?

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You're right. There's no room for giving up. There's still a lot to give and gain in this platform.

Thanks for the experienced tips my friend. There's enough room for learning and a lot of amazing authors who are ready to assist.

Thank you for your consistent support and encouragement to us all.

There's enough room for learning and a lot of amazing authors who are ready to assist.

Exactly brother! There is, just keep connecting and meeting new people.

Yeah true..I'm working on that my friend

This post is truly a motivation, had a pretty bad day yesterday and I was on the verge of walking away from my job but las las, i can't give up, got to keep pushing till I achieve my goal.

Wow, sorry about your day. Happy that my post motivates you. You surely can't give up and have to help pushing.

Thank you for your kind words.

You know, the first thing that came to my mind when I saw the title of your post was “Na who give up, fuck up” and I couldn’t help but smile when I noticed you included it in your writings.

Are you on discord? I would love to chat (I need your kind of motivation 😅)

You just got yourself a new follower by the way.

I am very active on discord. You can contact me: starstrings01#8020

Alright man.

Now that you say the importance of not giving up touches me deeply . 6 years ago I lived the worst experience of my life with the loss of my little son and a person took me by the hand and told me NEVER GIVE UP and from then on I use that phrase for everything... I'm thinking of getting it tattooed on my left arm. Forbidden to forget

Wow, you lost your son. That must have hit really hard. I am sorry to hear that. I am glad that you were able to recover from such incident. Greater joy is coming for you.

Thank you I send you blessings . You have a noble heart never change it...I will continue without ever giving up.

My man, try and stay strong.alot of people including myself look up to you, you motivate us.I know it's not easy,a lot happens but yes like you said find your reasons to keep you motivated.

Thanks for sharing!.

Thank you very much for your nice words.. yeah that's what I am doing finding reasons to stay motivated, strong and never giving up.

I agree with you bro, giving up is just running away from your shadow and that is a total lost to ones self

Hmm words brother.. it's a total lost. I begin to ask myself, what's the essence of starting my quest if I give up now? Loosing that essence is what makes many give up.

I will encourage to stay strong and stood still, Believe me with time you are going to conquer it all.
Success is waiting

Thank you very much for your nice words

@starstrings01 how have you been?

Trying my best to be better, hope you are doing good too?

That's good to hearar and the best thing to do now.

For me, I am doing good too

Thanks man. Good to hear that you are doing good to.

You are right bro. Failure should never be an option.

Thank you. You got it right!!! Failure should not be an option!

That's life where we have good and bad days, but the important thing is not to give up and keep looking forward, propose yourself and get up, sure you will succeed.