My First F #200

in Ladies of Hive2 months ago
Growing up I was taught that I just had to read and be excellent in my academics, be a miss know it all and I'll be alright, I faced a lot of challenges in school that I never told my parents about but I almost always passed with flying colors.

I remember my first academic failure, my first F. I changed schools due to some certain circumstances and this school was amazing, we read a lot and had lay time but it was all new to me. I always wanted to strictly be in the arts but this school made sure we learnt both things to be sure of our career path. I got my first F in this school and by learning my last. I and my classmates offered all the subjects in our Ss1 so it was an all round assignment. We had this wonderful history teacher I don't think anyone can fail her subject but alas I did, at the time I summed it up that she hated me that's why I failed, I just couldn't deal with the fact that I was to blame for my failure, I didn't submit the assignments, neither did I draw the diagrams. It took me a while to realize it was a me problem, I was overconfident, a person that says a lot to prove their smartness and doesn't back it up with action. I learnt from that experience, to calmly learn and do what's expected. I think that experience formed the mindset I have of life today, which is, if you work hard there is surely a reward, so keep at it.

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In life especially when I was in school, I have got F grades twice and now whenever I think about that time, I laugh about it because those grades couldn't stop me from doing my further studies. I had to work hard obviously but I had a positive mindset as well. It was disappointing but it was not the end of my future...

Getting an F at school can be a disappointing experience but we do learn from our mistakes. I'm glad that taught you something and shaped your mindset. Thanks for sharing your experience :)

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I'm not academically gifted either, my mother is smart and accomplished at college with a scholarship and I clearly disappointed her. I eventually discovered my passion into Nursing care where my marks did much better and chose as my career.

We should do what's best for us

Failing can be very disappointing, especially in academics, but it's definitely not the end. Thank you so much for sharing this encouraging piece.

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It takes a lot of courage to admit that you are at fault and that is the beginning of overcoming failure.