¡Hola hivers!💜
Espero que se encuentren bien y felices, queridas ladies. Tiempo sin participar en sus increíbles iniciativas, que siempre me hacen reflexionar. Esta vez no pude evitar participar, sobre todo cuando la primera pregunta me hizo reflexionar.
Estuve un rato buscando en mi cabeza cuando fue la primera vez que dije “te amo” a alguien que no fuera de mi familia y me costó un poco dar con el momento. Creo que en ese instante no sabía que lo iba decir, porque fue algo que literalmente escapó de mi boca con miedo. Admito que si era un sentimiento que venía formándose desde hace un tiempo y que ya la idea estaba en mi cabeza, pero no estaba en mis planes decirlo primero. Lo solté cual bomba mirándolo a los ojos, y no respondió nada. En ese momento me quedé algo pasmada y me dolió. No se si fue la inmadurez de ambos en la relación pero no volvimos a tocar el tema y la relación se rompió, no estábamos buscando lo mismo en ese momento.
Esa situación me dolió y sentí que mis sentimientos fueron desperdiciados, pero la verdad es que muchas veces podemos querer mucho a alguien, pero no siempre esa persona estará dispuesta a recibir nuestro amor. Son cosas que pasan.
Sobre mi lenguaje de amor, admito que no tengo uno en específico, me gusta aplicarlos todos porque soy muy cariñosa, pero tengo mucha afinidad por las palabras de afirmación, el tiempo de calidad y el contacto físico. Las personas siempre van a recordar cómo las hiciste sentir, y he aprendido que elogiar a alguien puede ayudarlo en un momento difícil y también puede reforzar su autoestima. Dedicar tiempo a otro es una bonita forma de querer, planificar citas o sacar 5 minutos de tiempo para hacer sentir al otro bien es bonito. Y sobre el contacto físico, admito que me gusta abrazar, soy demasiado física y me gusta estar haciendo cariño (siempre con el consentimiento de la otra persona).
Amar y demostrar amor es sencillo, pero nosotros los humanos algunas veces lo hacemos complicado.
Gracias por leerme
Con cariño, G.
Hi hivers! 💜
I hope you are well and happy, dear ladies. Long time no participate in your amazing initiatives, which always make me reflect. This time I couldn't help but participate, especially when the first question made me reflect.
I was searching in my head for a while when was the first time I said “I love you” to someone outside my family and it took me a while to find the moment. I think at that moment I didn't know I was going to say it, because it was something that literally escaped from my mouth in fear. I admit that if it was a feeling that had been forming for a while and that the idea was already in my head, but it was not in my plans to say it first. I dropped it like a bomb looking him in the eyes, and he didn't answer anything. At that moment I was a little stunned and it hurt me. I don't know if it was the immaturity of both of us in the relationship but we didn't touch the subject again and the relationship broke up, we weren't looking for the same thing at that moment.
That situation hurt me and I felt that my feelings were wasted, but the truth is that many times we can love someone very much, but not always that person will be willing to receive our love. These are things that happen.
About my love language, I admit I don't have a specific one, I like to apply them all because I am very affectionate, but I have a lot of affinity for words of affirmation, quality time and physical contact. People are always going to remember how you made them feel, and I've learned that praising someone can help them through a difficult time and can also boost their self-esteem. Spending time with another is a nice way to love, planning appointments or taking out 5 minutes of time to make the other feel good is nice. And about physical contact, I admit I like to hug, I'm too physical and I like to be affectionate (always with the other person's consent).
Loving and showing love is simple, but we humans sometimes make it complicated.
Thank you for reading me
With love, G..
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I agree with you; we do make it harder than it needs to be. Even if you can't or it isn't appropriate to say 'I love you', you can show someone you do by your actions. As my mom would say, 'actions speak louder than words'. Thank you for sharing, and have a lovely day!
It sounds like you had a really intense and vulnerable moment, and it must have taken a lot of courage to express your feelings like that, @geneleori. Emotions can be complex and unpredictable, and sometimes they take us by surprise, just like what you described. It's understandable that the lack of a response from him left you feeling hurt and uncertain. Relationships can be tricky, especially when both parties are still figuring out what they want.
It’s important to acknowledge that expressing your feelings, even when the outcome isn't what you hoped for, is a brave and significant step. It’s a part of growing and learning about yourself and your emotional needs. Everyone experiences love and relationships differently, and it’s okay if things didn’t work out with that person. Each experience helps shape who you are and what you’re looking for in a relationship.
Sometimes reflecting on past moments can offer valuable insights. Thank you for sharing, @geneleori!
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