You are correct. When you are a child, your parents are the most important, the ones you trust the most. When you get older, and you are fortunate to find "the one," that is who becomes most important. That's normal. Parents know this will happen.

My husband is the most important to me. Yes, my children are important, but I will not be spending the rest of my life with them. At times (and temporarily), my focus may have to change due to various circumstances and needs of a loved one. My husband is a man who allows this to happen when it is necessary. However, in the end, it is always my husband with whom I will be spending my time and my life. We are best friends!