Saddest journey, the interests and passions.👩

Hello there, hivers! Good day! Thank you for reading and supporting my last blog. By the way, this is now my new blog, all about myself, my passions, interests, and the journey I've been through during childhood days.

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Teacher

In my elementary years, only the teachers taught us how to read and write. I also trained myself to be better. My parents did not teach me how to read; it was just "sariling sikap "(self-reliance). Haha, that sounds funny, but yes, they did not. But I am proud of myself that I was able to continue my study with hard work. I can still remember that I was not good in math, especially in division, until now haha just kidding.

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When I was in High School, I already aware of what I want to do, what are my passions, to be honest I really love to write spoken word poetry, way back 2019 if Im not mistaken I composed more than 15 pieces of spoken words poetry and it was all about the pain I've received from my first ever boyfriend HAHA, I am not proud of having a boyfriend at early age I was just Grade-9 that time when I had and a 14 years old HAHA but we broke up because we found out that we're just relative yes, we broke up, but all those experiences I had during my first relationship have molded me into a better person. I am now aware of how to handle emotions, how to solve fights, problems, misunderstandings, and so on.

SOME BENEFITS OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP

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Benefits
Empathy and emotional awareness can be developed by being aware of your own feelings as well as those of your partner.
Healthy relationships and personal development depend on having the ability to set and uphold boundaries.
Relationships can provide you the chance to reflect on yourself and discover more about your own values, passions, and objectives.
You can learn how to express your thoughts, feelings, and needs effectively, as well as how to listen and empathize with your partner.
Dealing with disagreements and conflicts in a relationship can teach you how to negotiate, compromise, and find solutions together.

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To be honest I am now in a 3 years and 3 months relationship, a hardworking man, determined, strongly fighting, I cant explain everything but he's good with a heart, all the people I've met always told me that "You're so lucky to him" and I agree with it I am so lucky with him, I know their family background, I go to their house and have bonding with his family, I am also close to his sister who's older than him.

He stopped 2 years of schooling just to take care of his father who had a Mild stroke, his father admitted 3 times to different hospitals but sadly his father passed away Last month February 22, 2024. He is now an orphan his mother died when he was 12 years old because of Breast Cancer Stage 4.

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Sing + dance

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Writing

I also love to sing and dance, I love to watch motivational videos about life and I want to become a good volleyball player and a varsity, my father loves volleyball maybe I was influence by him HAHA, but now I am more focus in my studies, I encountered difficulties but thank to God I passed it.

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Trauma

I just want to share with you guys the worst experience I had during my childhood. It was one of the saddest journey in my life. There was a time that my mother went to a mountain. I was just 7 years old at the time, and it was 2012, if I'm not mistaken, so my mother went there, and my younger brother at the time cried. I didn't know what to do because I was just a child, so I decided to go to my mother to tell her that my brother cried. While I was walking in a tiny pathway going to my mother, there was a man who was standing beside the pathway.

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little girl

While walking he told me that there was a shortcut path and he want me to take that so that I am able to go with my mother as early so I also take that path without noticing that he had a bad intention against me, I was walking and he was standing at the back of me, he pulled me and then hug me tightly, covering my mouth with his one hand so that no one can hear my voice, he hug me tightly and tightly I was just a little girl that time so I dont have enough force.

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Carrying

He continued to walk while carrying me and then I find a way for him to release me, so what I do I was shaking my body and slowly moving so that I can run and then later on , he release me and I run as faster as I can until I saw my mother, she ask me what happened to my face because I was so sweat and then I just told her that I run, I was so scared.

Year 2023, I shared my experience to my mother about it and she asked me why it took me so long to tell her I just said " Im afraid" I dont want to be in trouble I dont want fight I want peace, I dont know who's that man because he covered his face with a t-shirt, up until now I dont know why but when I saw that man it was familar and now there is one person who I am afraid to talk to there's something with him, it super weird but I will not mention any name.

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mother and daughter

My advice to all the parents specially when you have a daughter, a child or a teen ager please monitor them Its important that parents put their daughter's safety and wellbeing first, especially in light of the terrible reality of the possibility of sexual assault. She can be empowered to defend herself and seek assistance when necessary if direction, safety precautions education, open communication, and a supportive environment are given.

In order to protect their daughter from potential threats, parents should keep an eye on her whereabouts, activities, and online interactions.
By keeping an eye on their daughter, parents can help her make wise decisions and stay out of dangerous situations by offering advice and support as she faces different obstacles in life.

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Safety

Regular monitoring between parents and their daughter makes it possible to encourage open communication about relationships, peer pressure, and personal struggles.
Monitoring teaches the daughter about accountability, responsibility, and respect for rules by helping to set and enforce boundaries.

Parents are able to keep an eye on their daughter's academic development and offer the support, resources, and encouragement she needs to thrive in the classroom.
Parents can help their daughter become a responsible and well-rounded person by monitoring her and instilling values like honesty, integrity, and resilience.

This is all for now hivers! thank you for reading. I hope you learned something bye! bye!