"I was once asked a touching question by a stranger who observed my isolative nature. They asked if I isolate myself out of pride , difficulty in associating,or if I just don't like associating. I smiled at the girl , wishing she knew how I am trying to overcome my social anxiety.
Let's talk more about us introverts. We are the sort of people who don't associate with those we are not close to ,we prefer staying alone , doing most things ourselves , and we talk less with people we do not know well . This makes some people think we are too sensitive and can tell what others are up to . However ,we are very observant , although we don't talk much .
We are not the talking type, but that does not mean we can't talk . When we start talking with people we are close to ,we often have deep, meaningful conversations . We are wonderful, sweet , and unique creatures that one can ever meet . Just because we are not sociable does not mean we can't handle any leadership position. Leadership is not a matter of how sociable one is, but the quiet power one possesses, which most introverts have.
If you see someone who does not relate or associate with others , instead of concluding or judging them very fast, try to get close to them to find out what kind of person they are. If they are an introvert , do your best to get closer to them. Even though we don't associate much, we still need people we can talk to and pour out our feelings to. One thing about us is that we do not like sharing our pains with anyone or telling others what we are going through. This is because we haven't found someone we can trust to tell all these things to. We choose the kind of people we tell our problems to.
So, if you find yourself with an introvert, try to make yourself one of those people that they can comfortably pour out their feelings to. You will remain special to us. Don't think of us as not sociable; we just have a different way of interacting with the world. We are the funniest people,and there are no dull moments with us. Cheers to us introverts! I am so proud of us"
I was quite the Introvert myself.
When I was starting on Hive I was always like that.
My friend Silversaver888 said, "Kerris, you need to engage more, get involved and be more sociable Sis!"
"What are you going to do Sis?"
"I just made you into a Moderator on our new #ladiesofhive tribe."
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