Flowing with life

We all suffer by nature whether we like it or not is the best way of teaching life there is a law that governs the constant flow in it that defines it all very well and is the desire to change our reality as it is will bring great pain and suffering the truth is that everything is constantly changing everything is transformed nothing stands still and although it seems incredible I can get to be in front of an exam of the man I like in a job interview without the nervousness, anxiety or fear disturb me or unbalance.

in my short experience in this world I have realized that we are much more than what we do we are more than an image, an achievement, a goal or what others think of us we are much more than a story when we look for our identity outside we are giving more importance to everything outside than to ourselves what outside is a hurricane of experiences that is why when we flow and surf with life no matter what it brings whether good or bad things are only things to grow and learn let's take advantage of any circumstance to move forward.

The moment we want to control or avoid we are going against the constant flow of life and we give our power to the things outside and when we need the things outside to feel good we are not truly free and even less happy and it may be that at a certain moment we do not understand this, but maybe it is necessary to go through difficult moments, to lose loved ones, to separate from a person we love, to lose our job, many times we do not see the whole, we underestimate the wisdom of life and what today seems very bad to us, maybe not tomorrow, evidently in life there is pain, but suffering is the story that we add to the pain itself.

That is why I have stopped giving so much. Important to things and it is not that I am becoming frivolous or do not care about things, but I have stopped worrying and accept things as they come or make me stronger or enjoy it I take advantage of the energy of what we label as bad to continue growing to continue researching and learning about myself.