All of us at some point in our lives are not going to cross paths with people who are going to disagree with us who are not going to like the way we think or act and are going to be convinced that we are acting wrongly and sometimes they are even going to argue just to impose their beliefs or thoughts trying to have validation from the outside, it is good that we have different ways of thinking and seeing the world because it brings variety and gives us the possibility to learn from others.
Obviously, we can also share wonderful situations in which the opinions or the way of proceeding of some people make us learn and cause our mind to click and we realize how wrong we have been for a long time as if someone had opened our eyes to a certain subject and we can see things more clearly, but most of the time this is not so.
that's why we don't usually get into stupid discussions that don't contribute anything and lead us to a good end and these confrontations that can go too high in tone can be with our partner for something that he thinks we do not do well with our friends or family for some sport taste or current news or in the same social networks like #hive where we launch attacks with people we don't really know, but each one believes to have the absolute truth and each and every one of them happen is because we allow bad comments to offend us and somehow we want to pay him back in the same way, but sometimes the wisest thing to do is to cut a conversation that starts to become discussion
The greatest pleasure of a hater is not to annoy or insult or say bad words, but to know that every time he annoys he has your full attention every time you respond to him.
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Really a nice reflection. You should not waste your happy positive energy on sad negative people.
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Thank you very much for your support. Happy day, blessings.
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Interesting reflection, sometimes it is better to keep quiet, than to want to defend a position and know that in the end the other side will not understand and you will be left as the ignorant one, the one who knows it all, the proud and contentious one. It is better to go unnoticed and let time and actions show who had a better option, because after all, things can be done in many ways, or even mistakes are also part of our essence, but learning from mistakes is another level that helps you overcome and improve, but without humility that is not possible. Being labeled as someone intransigent and contemptuous is something sad and sooner or later it will also take its toll. In conclusion, we can't win them all, but if we learn to listen we will always win.
If we are dealing with toxic people who only bother through social networks, silence is the best intellectual weapon. If it is in person, you have to know what battles to fight, because unfortunately there are people who do not learn with words and insist on treating us badly, persecuting us or pressuring us. Until we explode